I made a comment to a cute assistant at my chiropractor. She was very friendly till then, now she's trying to make me jealous and ignoring me?

[Immetal6669]

The comment I made... She was doing an ultrasound on my shoulder and asked me to unbutton 1 button, then I need you to unbutton another one. Then I replied "Hey, are you trying to get my shirt off"

[AnggieGirl]

Whoever you developed your hitting on women skills and female interpretations, you want to have a chat with them and ask for some feed back on some of your behaviours in these situations.

[Immetal6669]

Yeah my pick up skills are terrible (something I'm trying to work on). After a connection I'm pretty good though.

[Anonymous]

That is not her making you jealous that is her telling you you made her feel uncomfortable and that you acted unprofessional

[Immetal6669]

Clearly there's confusion because I didn't put the jealousy part. She totally used a guy over complimenting and made a huge deal about him in my presence

[Opinion Owner]

Read the heading of your question because you clearly wrote jealously in that part

Man are seriously stupid and you are one of the stupid guys you acted inappropriately around her regardless if she complimenting another guy or not you still acted unprofessional and inappropriately and you made her uncomfortable

Also her complimenting the guy in your presence is a way for us girls to tell a guy we are doing it in front off that we aren’t interested in them she could directly just say to you and say I’m not interested but she is trying to tell you that she isn’t interested in you without embarrassing you

[Immetal6669]

I'm so stupid, yet I landed a girl who did something similar... you just have to play the silent treatment back

[Avicenna]

Yeah, well, that was obviously rude of you. She isn't trying to make you jealous.

[Immetal6669]

Yeah she was read the reply to spartan55

[Avicenna]

LMAO... sure (shakes head)

But why do you care?

[Immetal6669]

A girl making a huge deal about another guy in front of a guy she's giving the silent treatment to, isn't trying to make the second guy jealous?

[Avicenna]

You made an ass of yourself with her, which means you're zero to her even in the unlikely event she even cared who you were beforehand.

[Immetal6669]

Whatever man. You clearly don't understand female psychology enough to know that ANY strong emotion you can get from a woman is a good thing if you know how to play it.

[Avicenna]

Whatever

[spartan55]

Nice line there Rico Suave. So how is she trying to make you jealous?

[Immetal6669]

The next appointment while I was resting face down getting heat and stim. She was making a huge deal about how funny another male patient that was there at the time. Laughing loudly and non-stop. Trust me this guy was being used.

[spartan55]

Okay... so what? Have you taken her out? Have you asked her out?

[Immetal6669]

Nah was trying to get conversation going. It was good till the comment, it's not like we get a lot of alone time especially with other patients in the same room

[spartan55]

Dude, she didn't like your comment.

[Immetal6669]

Yeah... I know that. I thought you were going to be the one that was actually helpful

[spartan55]

Well, if that critical detail wasn't the main component, I very well could have. Sorry.

[Immetal6669]

The fix is ignoring her back... could take a while though

[spartan55]

Sounds like a bad idea to be honest, but go ahead.

[Immetal6669]

Done it before... it works

[spartan55]

It won't work because she was offended, and now doesn't care. For ignoring a woman to have a shot at working she has to be interested and care.

[Immetal6669]

Do you put lots of emotional energy in something you don't care about?

[spartan55]

What's your point?

[Immetal6669]

You said she doesn't care... human nature says different. If she didn't care she wouldn't have put so much effort into expressing negative feelings towards me... Had an appointment today, and her attitude has begun to shift. She said my name, body language was facing me not a total 180 and she laughed at a joke I made to one of the other assistants

[spartan55]

Dude, care is two way street, for positive and negative emotions.

[Immetal6669]

Doesn't matter to a female strong emotion is a good thing, if you know how to deal with it. I'm convinced now she was testing me to see if I was a stalker/bitch. I passed.

[spartan55]

Wow, this is sort of fascinating that you think this way. Her body language facing you? If she was doing treatment on you, which way should she face? Laughing at one of your jokes? Come on man.

[Immetal6669]

Ok, you clearly don't know anything about subtle body language cues or the effects of power emotions on females... I guess they're right when they say only 3% of men understand these things.

[spartan55]

Is that right? What is your four year degree in? How many courses did you take in interpersonal communication? Any in non-verbal communication? I have, and more. So keep telling me how little I know about body language... 😂 😂 You a sound like you know about something that no guy except you could possibly understand. Keep going, this is great.

[Immetal6669]

I didn't waste time or money on college, I've already retired at 40... Societies standards to live your life are way off

[spartan55]

And that answer just you ducking facts. Whatever, dude. Don't sit there and act like you know more about something that I studied for four years. You are starting to embarrass yourself.

[Immetal6669]

You studied this for 4 years and wouldn't notice someone who wouldn't look at you or say a word to you all of a sudden making themselves in your presence and reacting to things you're saying. Come on man, how much money did you waste?

[spartan55]

Whatever, man. Speaking of wasting money, how many trips to Dr. Neckbreaker before you close? Let me guess, waiting for the right time? 😂 😂 😂

[Immetal6669]

How many trips I take have nothing to do with her, I have a serious injury. Not to much longer, she'll be coming up to me with a huge smile soon

[spartan55]

Ya, keep telling yourself that.

[Immetal6669]

Nobody has given me advice just called me stupid on this thread. Yet, I said to almost everyone I'm going to take the ignoring route... and she's turning. If I tried to ask her out now it would kill the attraction building in her. I've done this before, last time it took 6 months but one day she came up to me with a huge smile on her face and sparkles in her eyes.

[spartan55]

So, works once, will work for EVERY WOMAN, EVERY TIME... riiight

[Immetal6669]

Every woman is different, some are already with someone else... In my experience it's a crazy power over women

[In_Trance]

You're 40...

[Immetal6669]

And probably still land hotter girls than you

[In_Trance]

Not when you act like a child. Grow tf up