Does he (M15) like me (F15)?

[Anonymous]

We started talking three weeks ago and met up the second day we talked since we live so close. Since then, he's been initiating conversations, calling me pretty, beautiful and cute, texting me good morning and good night, asking if I want to cuddle, and asking to hang out. We've hung out a few times so far and it's gone great, we have similar interests and our conversations are nice.

He asked me to be his friends with benefits, but with the romantic/loving part to go with it, since he's not ready to commit to a full on relationship, due to a recent breakup.

[btbc92]

Sweetheart, this is something you need to speak with your parents and I am certain they will tell you what I am about to tell you. NO. This guy only wants sex. That is what friends with benefits is, it is just sex. The kid is lying and he tells that to others when he doesn't want to be committed. Those types of boys and men you leave alone because once you have sex that will lead to problems. Plus, if you get involved with guys like that, they tell others about what you are like, etc. He again just wants to use you, not truly be with you. Don't fall for it.

You are only 15 years old. Dating should not be on your mind unless you want to marry young and have a family young. Even then, focus on YOU. Listen to somebody who never dated. You will be glad you never got involved. Most of them are just interested in sex and that is it. You shouldn't be doing all of that stuff. Keep yourself and don't worry what others do. I'm sure there may be a few that are serious, but at this point, you're too young right now to be thinking that.

Stay focused on your school work and figure out what are you going to do. This discussion should be held with your family and or who is responsible for raising you. NOT random strangers like ourselves here. It's not about a recent breakup. He just wants SEX. And that is all. The fact that he is even using a breakup as an excuse to take advantage of other girls besides him suggesting friends with benefits is a major red flag sweety, it means he is not stable for anything serious and sadly you don't even know how many girls who he's been active with. Do not get involved with him before this guy ends up being the reason why your romance, marriage, sex, life is all messed up

. He is already heading down the wrong path. Do not follow that guy. You want a relationship then wait until you are old enough to fully understand what your risking at your young age, especially sexually. Please save yourself to marriage before you have all these men as sex partners and nothing stable for yourself. It is no way to live and there isn't a rush. No matter who may try to judge you for "lack" thereof, don't worry.

[Wise4myage]

Sure he does, but he's confused. Because you can't be friends with benefits and want to be romantic and loving at the same time. Plus, you're too young.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, but don't go for that- insist on an exclusive relationship

[Iron_Man]

Concentrate on your schoolwork boys are drama

[Asker]

No need.

[Iron_Man]

No need for what

[Asker]

Concentrating on school work, I'm already a straight A student.

[Iron_Man]

Getting involved with teen boys is a huge distraction it will start to take away from your studies plus you don’t want to become a teen mom

[In_Trance]

Yeah he probably does