Why would he say he misses me too but show less affection in his text?

[Anonymous]

He messages me first to ensure we don’t lose touch, we’re not in love yet but we are exclusive. I’ve just been seeing how things go. I found myself missing him after some time apart. He’s the one that initiated meeting up again and arranged it but when I said I’m looking forward to it as I’ve missed him he responded by saying he missed me too but put less kisses in his message (which I’m sure was deliberate because he does tend to use affection like that to let me know when he is or isn’t happy). I can’t ask him because I’m just not convinced id get the truth tbh.

[Avicenna]

Might just be his communication style

[Iron_Man]

Maybe he’s just not that serious

[Asker]

That’s what I’m thinking. He’s paid for a hotel etc for us to meet now though and asked to meet up for an hour the next day. Wonder whether I should bother much more.

[Iron_Man]

I think you should MoveOn

[Asker]

Even though he has drove a few hours to see me before and is only seeing me exclusively?

[Iron_Man]

After he gets enough sex he’s going to dump you
I know people like this. You’re not even in love

[Asker]

We’re not in love no but I’m just seeing whether it’s a bit of a slow burner or not.

[Asker]

When is enough sex? We’ve been having it for the past 6 months.

[Iron_Man]

Try cutting him off sexually if he sticks around maybe you have something there if he leaves then you know it was all about the sex

[Asker]

Yeah that’s what I was thinking too. He does ask to meet up and hang out when sex won’t be on the table.

[Aquestion992]

Stop ignoring my messages

[Aquestion992]

This is no way to treat anyone

[Iron_Man]

Sorry question asker this young lady is mad at me

[In_Trance]

he's lying

[Asker]

Why?