Guys, Will you ever marry this kind of girl?

[Anonymous]

• She may be difficult to get to know. Like on the first date she doesn't open up about herself. She seems low-key and mysterious.
• She isn't a people person. She stays to herself and stays out of the drama. However, many people may have problems with her. People may think she has a bad attitude and is "Stuck up" or "Boujee".
• You can't play with her! She won't hesitate to leave you if you did something to her. Like if you maybe were starring at a girl (and was not checking her out) or maybe being nice to a girl when she interpreted it to be flirting. Due to her past relationships, she may say she trust you but she doesn't really, always think you are cheating and being sneaky, and has major anger issues.

If you wouldn't marry her, what would you think of her?
(The reason I'm asking is for my relationship development and marriage class xD)

[Hellraiser1984]

She's very strong and has her own personality not what the media says she should be. She's smart because she knows all the bad stuff out there and wants to stay away from it. I would give her a chance at least. I'm pretty much the same way. Been hurt a few times and although the pain lessens over time it never goes away. She's protecting herself. Which is a good thing but it's to what extent she will harden inside. If she never let's anyone in ever again , she hurting herself as much as protecting herself. That's what I've done for too long. Plus if the guy/girl she's dating is just going to flirt with girls while you two are out then get rid if him. He doesn't respect you at all. Considering I'm the same way as her I'd take time and hopefully we'll open up to each other instead of forcing a relationship. If we are connecting and respect each other I will think about it. But the yes or no is her decision.

[Fireguy17]

Thank you and good night!
Life is way too short for me to be with someone like that.
All you are ever going to do is to try to keep her from being pissed off at you, which won't work because she will just be pissed off at you because you haven't done anything wrong for her to be pissed off about.
You will never win, you are just screwed and it will never get better.
Is that how you want to live the rest of your life?
For me, hell no.
I would rather have someone that is a partner, and not have to walk on pins & needles all the time.
Did I happen to say I would pass on someone like that.
I would wish her all the happiness in the world as I did my best John Force imitation as I left her driveway.

[ZackBan]

Nope.
Too much trouble with no viable return on investment.
This whole "she won't hesitate to leave" is appealing to women when it's they guy who won't hesitate to leave but the reverse is not true.
Guys want their efforts reciprocated and their advances met with compliance.
Not necessarily to the extreme but there has to be some sort of emotional spark during the date for the guy to consider it a success and therfore pursue the relationship.
No one is willing to date a pain the ass much less marry her

[BeMuse]

A women that doesn’t share much isn’t mysterious, she’s boring… There is nothing wrong with being a little introverted, but being stuck up and having a bad attitude will turn a lot of people off. Being paranoid and jealous isn’t going to get you a second date. Relationships are a two way street. You’re the one looking for a relationship… You’re so invested in the idea that you’re going far enough to speak about the idea of marriage, when you clearly have no control over the guy’s position or opinion. You’re not in the driver seat cupcake. He will form opinions about you just as easily as you will about him. If you jump into dating with a very self centered view, you’re going to keep tripping over yourself and get no where...

[Ekke118]

Probably not. I'm righteous and polite and it would be very hurtful to still not be trusted despite my character. And the "major anger issues" are a bigger issue than that from it being unattractive for two reasons: I dislike aggressive behavior in general, and I like meek girls.

[Dchrls78104]

No, I would not; the insecurity and anger issues would turn me off. In my opinion, such a girl eould not be capable of handling an interpersonal relationship and should not be dating anyone at all until she first got and benefited from the necessary help of professionals suitably qualified to treat with said insecurity and anger issues.

[slatyb]

She needs a therapist, nit a husband. Out of control anger should be a deal-breaker. The men who stay with women like her are pathetically weak. Been there. Then got some therapy myself.

[patrick677]

I would personnaly if i am happy with her,
When we want we always find solutions.

I dont understand the people that say they love someone but playing with others.

[Anonymous]

Only needed to read the first paragraph. The answer is "No".

[Pete671]

I'd love to be her friend, I would guess she has undiagnosed autism,,,

[shades777]

no, didn't even need to read pass the second point lol, she's already unattractive from the get go

[Shiningtempest]

I won't date or marry this kind of woman because she's a real headache.