Girls, Sexiest things in a guys dating profile?

[Clance]

Little things you notice that would make you more likely to enjoy.

Maybe things you notice that you hate as well.

[petitedollbabee]

If he says he has a dog, talks about enjoying friends and family, mentions his hobbies/interests, and mentions what he does for work. That would draw in my attention. Also if he was someone who played a lot of video games, that would make me very interested.


Things that I consider a red flag in a man’s bio:
~ Saying he doesn’t date ugly or fat chicks (I’m not ugly or fat but it tells me that he is shallow and bases self worth off of physical appearance)
~ Saying that he won’t date someone who identifies sexually as anything but straight (tells me he is threatened by a a persons sexuality and he has low confidence)
~ Saying he needs to make new friends (typically if someone has no friends, there’s something wrong with them… even introverts have at least 1 or 2 friends)
~ Showing signs in his bio of being an alcoholic or drug addict… addicts attract other addicts, no sober person is going to want an alcoholic or a drug addict as their partner.

[Clance]

I appreciate how in depth you went. This is great info for a bio and photos potentially. Are there any pictures that are particularly hot to you or particularly turn you off?

As for the friends bit, would you date a guy who didn't really have a social media presence?

[Sarahdelacruz]

How is a guys sexual preference make him less confident? That’s double standards because most straight women would never give a bisexual man a chance & that doesn’t mean they’re not confident.

[petitedollbabee]

Guys who have photos of themselves without a shirt are a turn off, photos of him with his family or friends, or pets, draws in my attention :)

Sarah, I’m aware there are women out there who don’t give bisexual men a chance. However, I’m not one of those women, and my comment is simply MY opinion. I cannot speak for every woman on the planet, I’m simply speaking for myself and what I like/dislike in a man’s profile.

[petitedollbabee]

And yes, I would date a man with little to no social media presence. Aslong as he has Facebook, that’s good enough for me!

[Sarahdelacruz]

There’s nothing wrong with your preference. The problem is you insulting a man’s confidence based on your personal preference is where the problem lies. Why can’t it just be I prefer men who don’t care about a woman’s sexuality but why do you have to say they have low confidence just because they prefer straight women?

[petitedollbabee]

Oh I see now, my bad for wording it that way. I wasn’t sure how else to word it. From personal experience, every man I’ve met who has refused to date bisexual, pansexual etc women, are threatened by the woman’s sexuality because they are scared they will be cheated on or left for a woman. So that’s why I assume most men have confidence issues, because from men that I have personally met, they automatically assume a woman will cheat on them or leave them simply because they are bisexual/pansexual etc.

[Anonymous]

I urge you to look at girls age before you read their comment. There are some ignorant things a 20 year old what say and there are things that a 20 year old would say that a 30 year old would not. So be careful to weed out the bullshit and get to the common threads.

[Clance]

Wdym? I think if a girl gives her opinion it can't be BS because it is their opinion! Could you give an example of something you would think is dumb?