How often do females slide in guys DMs?

[WinCx3d]

I wanted to get to know this handsome guy i saw on facebook dating but, I’m scared of rejection

[FlutteringFeelings]

You can comment on one of his posts and throw out the bait but it’s his decision to bite. You can throw the bait into the lake but you cannot control it the fish will bite onto it or not. You have to give him room to see what he’s willing to do without you forcefully creating a imaginary connection that was never there. Guys aren’t blind and if they’re attracted there will be some feedback to let give you a green light. You don’t have to send: “Hey I saw your page and I thought you were so attractive so I messaged you.”


What can he do with that information? Say thank you? Take it easy and try to start a conversation.
Reply to one of his posts in his DM’s and if he replies then you can gradually start up a conversation to see if he engages in it.

[WinCx3d]

He rarely posts

[Anonymous]

You could just tell him the truth. If you lose, you lose nothing but what you let it take away for you

[Novacane]

Very very minimal, it does happen don't get me wrong but it's rare, and as someone mentioned they only do it when they consider the guy to be a 9 or 10. I would say just do it, slide in his DM, the reality is you are a girl the likeliness that you get rejected is very small, it might happen, but you have more of a chance of success than failure, unlike guys who get rejected left and right.

[Stevefiveo]

Girls can slide in the DMS also. Don't worry about the rejection, it is only someone on Facebook. It is better to go for it and get want you want than to not do anything and just wonder what could have been. Good luck.

[WinCx3d]

What should i say

[Stevefiveo]

Hmm. Stalk his Facebook page and make up something you have to ask him. Maybe find out his favorite music or tv shows. If you have something in common like that. That would be a good place to start. Then maybe slide in to flirting. Good luck.

[LegendaryIcon]

it's not unheard of, just rare

women are less likely to do it because they're afraid of rejection just like us, however, if you really feel like he might like you, then go for it

but please, figure out what YOU WANT. I've seen some of your shit

[Vikkrram]

Scared of rejection... if u don't make a moove... still u won't even know what he wants...

[WinCx3d]

What should i say?

[genericname85]

never. unless if you count those fake accounts that are trying to get you signed up to something shady. then quite a lot xD

[boredKen]

I have had both women and men slide in my DMs in the past. But women don't do it as frequently as men do.

[Phoenix98]

It happens occasionally though the platform he's own may increase or decrease the amount a guy gets.

[TacosRAwesome]

Not that often which means that unless you're really unattractive you have a chance for trying.

[Ailaw22]

It's rare and then too we get suspicious if that happens like a boy pretending to be a girl

[WinCx3d]

I’m not a catfish or nothing but i really want to get to know this guy but I’m not sure on what to say

[Ailaw22]

Well I didn't said you are but he already knows you you can message then

[WinCx3d]

He hasn’t seen me in person lol

[Ailaw22]

I see good luck @WinCx3d 😊

[WinCx3d]

What should o say

[Ailaw22]

Something catchy you saw his profile you can start with a question of that

[jasco]

Depends on attraction and status. For some on a daily, others commonly and for most rare.

[Cowboy6666]

Its almost rare to happen with me.
No girl actually slides in my DMs

[Hanrej]

It only ever happens if the "girl" is selling somthing.

[Anonymous]

They only do it to guys who are the top 1% of looks.

[Anonymous]

Still very rare and likely always will be rare, let alone even a girl asking a guy out

[mark000h]

Most of them are catfishes.

[WinCx3d]

You think so? I’m not a catfish lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If we don't take a chance then we will never know

[Wise4myage]

Happens fairly often to me.

[lovey44]

A lot more than you think I am tellin' ya!!

[StickStickity13]

If he's handsome, many

[emperor90]

They do sometimes most of them are genuine

[Hulk30]

not often