I just got stood up last night. We agreed to meet at a hotel but I ended up waiting 2 hours in bed just for him to text "nvm." Me patiently waiting for my hookup last night lol
Have you ever been "stood up" for a date or hookup?
Yes and this is why I do not get the room until she shows up, meet in parking lot.
I got screwed over earlier this month, when I rented a nice $200 dollar room and she never showed up. She then texted and said sorry, I was in a car accident lets try again, but not until two days later.
I gave her a second chance. This time I did not rent the room but she no showed again, so I blocked her. I learned my lesson, don't waste money until I'm sure. She was likely lying to begin with and just messing with me.
I learned after this that some fake people will do this kind of stuff thinking they are trying to stop immoral acts, by pretending to be interested and then this. Like some kind of vigilante thinking I or others will give up.
I would never have stood you up, your very good looking and he is a dumb, don't give him another chance.
What is wrong with these guys today the only thing I could think of is it he was scared he was shaking in his boots Well I'm sorry that that happened to you Cuz it's probably for the best because if it was that scared it might have been a 1-minute shot and he would have probably went home right after so it was his loss for sure
Yes, I have been just once... I was waiting at a restaurant for her to show and she said she forgot about our date. It was all good, ended up going out with friends instead and met another woman and we hit it off and ended up dating for about 6 months.
I hear you. I've been all set to meet then they give me some bull story about wanting cards or cash when I'm already on my way. and I has specific instructions in my profile or ad that I wanted a REAL friends with benefits that could lead to a relationship. and I specifically said if they were a pay for play, wanted cards, or were a guy i was in no way interested. If a gal asks for cards, cash or anything except a mutual enjoyment friends with benefits that could lead to a relationship that is an immediate turn off, especially if I've never met the person IRL an old friend (scale of years) would be different.
Any guy who stands YOU up is pretty damn stupid. LOL I've been stood up, yes, but I was already in the hotel for a conference, so it didn't cost me anything extra. I've been stood up for a "normal" date too, not just a hook-up.
LOL I wondering if the person who downvoted what I posted is saying "the guy who stood you is pretty smart?" Guess they don't like that you were there for a hook-up.
I would never intentionally do that. The times where I had to cancel meetups were not my fault. I was in the hospital. I missed jury selection twice due to hospitalization. I personally think that should preclude me from ever sitting on a jury, but apparently it doesn't.
I have been stood up for a date. She gave some lame excuse about work but what she didn't know was that I already stopped by where she worked because I wanted to give her a ride home and she was not there. I never called her again.
So one guy rejected you and your whole world comes crashing down. See this is what all the attention seeking gets you. It gives you a false perception of reality.
Yep was supposed to go to dinner with a women after I waited for about an hour she told me she was sorry she couldn’t make it and never texted me back after that..
Yeah, but it was expected. They were from out of state and bailed on their flights after talking for a few months. Weird, but nerves are a thing and some people can't handle it.
That makes them feel less comfortable and is why they don’t come. Those are the obvious signs. The other could just very well be that she sounds like a mess and you don’t want to deal with that.
We've had plenty of partners visit from out of state, but the few that canceled is simply out of nerves as they were anxious people in general. But please, keep talking like you know what you're talking about.
That dudes crazy to stand you up. I've had people cancel plans at the time they were set for, but never stood up without them letting me know they wouldn't be there until after
Yes, she did show up to the restaurant and then left before fully entering and she even looked in my direction for a moment which means she saw how ugly I was and decided fuck no.
@Iron_Man yea it was the closest thing I've ever had to a date and a part of me wishes the friends who set up the blind date would've shown here a picture beforehand so she could be just rejected me instead of me being humiliated at the restaurant like that. It's one of the many reasons I ended up just giving up trying to date and won't ever try again.
@Iron_Man already have, I gave up years ago. The only way I'd date is if a girl approached me and since that won't ever happen, dating won't happen for me and I'm learning to be ok with that.
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