Have you ever been "stood up" for a date or hookup?

[Anonymous]

I just got stood up last night. We agreed to meet at a hotel but I ended up waiting 2 hours in bed just for him to text "nvm."

Me patiently waiting for my hookup last night lol

[Dragonpurple]

Yes and this is why I do not get the room until she shows up, meet in parking lot.

I got screwed over earlier this month, when I rented a nice $200 dollar room and she never showed up. She then texted and said sorry, I was in a car accident lets try again, but not until two days later.

I gave her a second chance. This time I did not rent the room but she no showed again, so I blocked her. I learned my lesson, don't waste money until I'm sure. She was likely lying to begin with and just messing with me.

I learned after this that some fake people will do this kind of stuff thinking they are trying to stop immoral acts, by pretending to be interested and then this. Like some kind of vigilante thinking I or others will give up.

I would never have stood you up, your very good looking and he is a dumb, don't give him another chance.

[ohshee]

What is wrong with these guys today the only thing I could think of is it he was scared he was shaking in his boots
Well I'm sorry that that happened to you
Cuz it's probably for the best because if it was that scared it might have been a 1-minute shot and he would have probably went home right after so it was his loss for sure

[Daniela1982]

Good thing he didn't come. He was HIV positive, had STD's, HPV, STP, and about 5 jealous girlfriends that would have come looking for you.

[RebeccaBI2000]

I have not. Thank goodness. Sorry that happened to you

[beernbacon69]

Yes, I have been just once... I was waiting at a restaurant for her to show and she said she forgot about our date. It was all good, ended up going out with friends instead and met another woman and we hit it off and ended up dating for about 6 months.

[beernbacon69]

by the way, if that's you in the picture above... his loss, it looks like he missed out on a fun time with a beautiful woman.

[Asker]

Aw thanks! I'm glad your situation turned out better than expected

[one1wild00]

I hear you. I've been all set to meet then they give me some bull story about wanting cards or cash when I'm already on my way. and I has specific instructions in my profile or ad that I wanted a REAL friends with benefits that could lead to a relationship. and I specifically said if they were a pay for play, wanted cards, or were a guy i was in no way interested. If a gal asks for cards, cash or anything except a mutual enjoyment friends with benefits that could lead to a relationship that is an immediate turn off, especially if I've never met the person IRL an old friend (scale of years) would be different.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

Yeah. Happens to the best of us. Going by your picture, however, he is a damn fool.
Please send him this picture for me

[Asker]

Haha thanks! I love Gordon Ramsay!

[MrtoddsWildRide]

I get why I get stood up, but you...

[loveslongnails]

Any guy who stands YOU up is pretty damn stupid. LOL
I've been stood up, yes, but I was already in the hotel for a conference, so it didn't cost me anything extra. I've been stood up for a "normal" date too, not just a hook-up.

[loveslongnails]

LOL I wondering if the person who downvoted what I posted is saying "the guy who stood you is pretty smart?" Guess they don't like that you were there for a hook-up.

[Twalli]

I would never intentionally do that. The times where I had to cancel meetups were not my fault. I was in the hospital. I missed jury selection twice due to hospitalization. I personally think that should preclude me from ever sitting on a jury, but apparently it doesn't.

[exitseven]

I have been stood up for a date. She gave some lame excuse about work but what she didn't know was that I already stopped by where she worked because I wanted to give her a ride home and she was not there. I never called her again.

[Asker]

What a bitch!

[exitseven]

@SweetTay Indeed. I would never do that to somebody.

[blondfrog]

So one guy rejected you and your whole world comes crashing down. See this is what all the attention seeking gets you. It gives you a false perception of reality.

[princeofromance]

Yes, I have a couple of times. It makes me feel sad that one human being would treat another in that fashion.

[De_La_BakedBeans]

Personally, no, but I wouldn't let it go to your head. People who that sort of thing aren't worth it anyway.

[slatyb]

No, I met a lot of women through match. com and none ever failed to show. It's a paid service so the members are somewhat serious.

[Gingerguy33]

Yep was supposed to go to dinner with a women after I waited for about an hour she told me she was sorry she couldn’t make it and never texted me back after that..

[Ironic_Method]

Yeah, but it was expected. They were from out of state and bailed on their flights after talking for a few months. Weird, but nerves are a thing and some people can't handle it.

[TheBigGuy9]

Or that guy has a wife or girlfriend. Nerves lol.

[Ironic_Method]

That usually makes them feel more comfortable?

[TheBigGuy9]

That makes them feel less comfortable and is why they don’t come. Those are the obvious signs. The other could just very well be that she sounds like a mess and you don’t want to deal with that.

[Ironic_Method]

We've had plenty of partners visit from out of state, but the few that canceled is simply out of nerves as they were anxious people in general. But please, keep talking like you know what you're talking about.

[TheBigGuy9]

I do now, with the proper context.

[Slartybartfast]

Guys get ghosted all the time, it's almost half expected.

[Finchie40]

Did you pay for the hotel as well? His loss for sure , but no I never been stood up

[AydenHazor]

That dudes crazy to stand you up. I've had people cancel plans at the time they were set for, but never stood up without them letting me know they wouldn't be there until after

[InferiorElegy]

Yes, she did show up to the restaurant and then left before fully entering and she even looked in my direction for a moment which means she saw how ugly I was and decided fuck no.

[Iron_Man]

That’s absolutely horrible she’s very rude

[InferiorElegy]

@Iron_Man yea it was the closest thing I've ever had to a date and a part of me wishes the friends who set up the blind date would've shown here a picture beforehand so she could be just rejected me instead of me being humiliated at the restaurant like that. It's one of the many reasons I ended up just giving up trying to date and won't ever try again.

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that don’t give up though

[InferiorElegy]

@Iron_Man already have, I gave up years ago. The only way I'd date is if a girl approached me and since that won't ever happen, dating won't happen for me and I'm learning to be ok with that.

[Iron_Man]

Try Christian Mingles

[cookiecrusher]

No.

And acting like a low "value" woman gets you low value treatment.

Do your thing if that's what you like, but don't be suprised.

[Anonymous]

OMG. What a fabulous pair of tits you have. May I please ask what size you are.

[Still-alive]

Hi girl who always asks about tits 👋

[Gb-Fan]

@Still-alive yeah cause it’s a dude and so is the op.

[Bismarck_96]

I've always seen this dude ask about tits

[DJB72]

I honestly don't know why any guy would stand you up.

[Socal99]

Super hot looking love your tongue beautiful breasts

[Iron_Man]

Ask her out on a date fly to her city

[Godsvengeance]

Yes I have and I have also, unfortunately had to stand someone up before. You look fantastic so if you feared that was the reason, you shouldn't

[Staximus]

Next time tell the guy to get the hotel room and call you when he already got a room. Stop fucking bums.

[boobliker]

many times got to a point I stopped waiting more than the next bus home. it was sickering to me as i traveled a long way...

[bolverk]

More than once (different persons though), first and only chance.

[msc545]

I've had this happen, although I didn't wait 2 hours.

[Asker]

I probably waited 1:30 hours too long lol but I was really hoping lol

[msc545]

You are probably lucky he didn't show up.

[Asker]

Probably lol

[scott5]

Well someone would actually have to want to go out with me for that to happen

[zagor]

No I have not. I have been very late a couple times though.

[Jintendo18]

I’ve been flaked on that same day only hours before which is bad enough.

[TheBigGuy9]

It happens to us all whether hot or not. Don’t go begging for attention now.

[TheBigGuy9]

Move on with some new guy.

[James899]

Some guys are totally waste fellow's. I don't waste a chance if you wanna hook with me.

[Still-alive]

Sorry to hear it. Luckily it has never happened to me before

[Naughtyboy71]

Damn he was a fool standing you up be knocking people
over getting to you

[Bismarck_96]

I've always had a thing for eyes I would've showed up

[zeitgeist057]

Me too, I love a woman with a face.

[harrison102]

Wow such nice eyes and boobs yes I have a few times lol I’ll definitely would have showed up 😜

[HelpingMcHelpington]

Nope, never been stood up. Just straight up rejected, Ahaha! Ha... ha...

Wakka wakka

[nawtee_me]

I would have b en there early if I knew I was meeting you

[Guanfei]

That really terrible to leave such a gorgeous lady in bed alone. Wouldn't do that.

[EaterPeter]

I doubt that. That privilege is for women and pretty people only.

[hi8sm3]

@marianna34n see? this is attention seeking. that is why they think you are like this person.

[Marianna34n]

Lol why are u tagging me?

[hi8sm3]

@Marianna34n you are the curious one who was asking why they accused you

[hi8sm3]

"Lol why are u tagging me?" you shouldn't ask that, you should thank for giving you an answer with an example.

[Marianna34n]

Lol stop it!

[Marianna34n]

U cn think whatever u wanna think idc

[hi8sm3]

@Marianna34n then stop asking bullshit questions

[hi8sm3]

troll, lets' see if I am seeing you around

[hi8sm3]

@Iron_Man

[Iron_Man]

She likes to flirt with older women but she says she is straight with guys she's serious business

[hi8sm3]

@Iron_Man doesn't look 17 either

[Iron_Man]

I was thinking about that earlier yes she does. She said she’s 18 in March But who knows what’s going on

[hi8sm3]

@Iron_Man as she is way older than 18 for sure. I would think it is a catfish, but I saw a video where she talked.

[Iron_Man]

Well then she’s not a catfish but she’s probably way older than 18 like you told me in private message 25

[Iron_Man]

She has issues for sure she left me three different messages then deleted three minutes ago

[hi8sm3]

@Iron_Man I first found her a troll. Then I thought I misjudged her, finally she showed her true nature

[Iron_Man]

Probably so unfortunately she’s from Greece where my girlfriend lives we don’t need to girls from Greece on the site do we? And she’s a troll

[Iron_Man]

Two….

[Anonymous]

Seriously a guy turned this down? The only explanation is got a better deal.

[TsAubreyKate]

No but i had one girl leave in the middle because her mom had an emergency

[H8INCHES]

You look amazing. He must be nuts to leave you hanging.

[Anonymous]

ya I have. looking back I was just lonely and they were losers

[AustColombiangirl]

how could someone stand you up

[Anonymous]

I offered a guy sex, but he chickened out.

[nawtee_me]

Does that offer still stand? I will take you up on it.

[Anonymous]

What a jerk!!!
But sometimes things happen for a reason always believe that :)

[ArchivalMars2]

Yep, annoyed the hell out of me with one date

[Citizenkirk]

No, and I would never stand someone up either 😝👺

[2legit2lye]

Its his loss he will regret it one day

[FunkyMonkee]

Several times!! Nearly always by the same girl!

[soe11]

Never be a submissive in any matter.

[Anonymous]

What's the rest of the story?

[Wise4myage]

I have been stood up once and it sucked.

[pizzalovershouse]

Date yes cuz she said her car broke down

[Stevefiveo]

He doesn't know what he's missing.

[OddBeMe]

How many solicitations have you received so far?

[LegendaryIcon]

was it a paid hookup... are you a pros?

[Cowboy6666]

Thankfully that hasn't happened with me so far :)

[Joshua0213]

Nah but I've only dated 2 people

[Fuentes]

You should have met up with someone else