Your views on guys who are short?

[fivetotoe]

Whats your criteria of a short guy and what are your thoughts & opinions on short height guys?

[MCheetah]

"Your views on guys who are short?"
Women hate us and unless we're millionaires, we're undateable to them.

"What's your criteria of a short guy"
Any man less than six feet/183 cm tall. Even women are commonly 5'10" and 5'11" nowadays.

"What are your thoughts & opinions on short height guys?"
We deserve love just like anyone else out there. Even if women disagree with that.

As for me? My manlet ass has given up on dating. I've not found one woman out there willing to overlook my 180 cm "handicap." That's why I'm less nice and more honest now. What do I have to lose at this point? Instead, all I can do is work on improving myself even more, in body and mind. I'm getting used to a lifetime of solitude. At least on the bright side, there won't be any messy divorces or child custody disputes this way. Stoicism truly is our only way to stay sane in today's dating climate.

[fivetotoe]

You are 180?

[Cherry234]

I don't mind guys who are short. I just don't like the ones that have toxic personalities or short man syndrome so I would do my best to avoid them. As a general rule, I will date a guy that's the same height or taller than me (I'm 5'5).

[fivetotoe]

You do realise that majority of short men have short man syndrome or toxic personality because of being short?

[Cherry234]

What do you mean the majority? How many guys are that insecure about their height?

[fivetotoe]

I wanna know your experience.
In my opinion almost all men who are short as in proper short in height who can even be shorter than tall-ish women are highly insecure and suffer such syndrome
Not the ones who are 5'9 or so and yet " feel" short lol

[Cherry234]

I haven't had any negative experiences with short men. I went to my high school prom with a guy who's the same height as me and I wore 4 inch heels. He didn't have a problem with it or say anything about it. He liked me at the time but I didn't feel the same way about him.

[fivetotoe]

You didn't like him because he was short?

[Cherry234]

It wasn't because of his height. I just wasn't romantically attracted to him. I've liked guys the same height or only an inch taller than me before.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

How short are we talking?
I personally wouldn’t date a guy shorter than me because I’m 5’2. I don’t have many views on short guys. There’s nothing you can do about it, it doesn’t make them any less of a man.

[fivetotoe]

First I wanna know what's your " criteria" of a short man? How short is short for a man?

[MCheetah]

Most women won't date a guy shorter than six feet (but they'll hook up with him, if he has enough of a gym body) and won't give the time of day to any man their height or shorter than them even when they're wearing heels. You happen to be really short for a girl, but most girls are like 5'5", 5'6". And in heels, even taller than that, like 5'9".

In other words, you think exactly like all other women out there on this issue. Your barrier to entry is just slightly lower because you're shorter than them. You'd probably go down to a guy who's as short as 5'11" or 5'10", given your height. Only difference is you saying "it doesn’t make them any less of a man." That's the only thing other women wouldn't say.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

5’5 I suppose.

[fivetotoe]

Yeah am talking about 5'5-5'6 types short
So what say

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

@MCheetah I’m dating a guy who is 5’8 and doesn’t have much of a gym body except for biger arms. I don't know what to tell ya lol.

[Apulu_3]

I don't mind any height unless it is shorter than my shoulders. Otherwise if love is true that won't matter also.

[fivetotoe]

Haha that's nice of you then. Why is it not ok if he is upto your shoulder? Lol

[Apulu_3]

I'm a cuddler person. And I want my future partner to hug me in such a way that it will feel warm. If he is more short then it will be just like hugging a teddy bear. No difference. Otherwise no major problem.

[fivetotoe]

If you both are either sitting or lying and cuddling then how come hugging/cuddling be an issue if he is shorter than your shoulder?

[Apulu_3]

Eh I mean a nice and warm back hug. That's my favorite.

[fivetotoe]

How come you are tall girl.
How tall are your parents?

[Apulu_3]

I went in my tall grandpa. My dad is of 5'5 and Mom is of 5'3. They are short.

[fivetotoe]

Oh dad is your height and in sometime he'll be shorter than you lol
How tall is grandpa?
And how do you feel about being taller than dad?

[Apulu_3]

My grandpa is of 6'2 feet. And it seems cute when my dad gets jealous of my height when his friends tease him.

[fivetotoe]

Seriously? Dad's friend tease him for being shorter than his daughter?
And he feels bad too?
How do you feel about being taller than dad?

[Apulu_3]

Nah he doesn't feel very bad but kind of childish jealousy you can say lol. He is shortest among his friends that is why he is teased. And for me I find that cute. Nothing wrong in it.

[fivetotoe]

I can understand him.
by the way how tall/short are you in your age group girls?

[Apulu_3]

I'm average or tall only but I am rarely shorter than someone around my age. Actually I don't know properly as my classmates are all 14-15 while I am 13.

[fivetotoe]

Even if they're 14-15 yet what's your observation? Mostly they're slightly taller or slightly smaller only? Or most are significant taller? Significant smaller?
And how about boys?

[Apulu_3]

Boys? There are shorter and longer both. Girls? Mostly around my height.

[fivetotoe]

Did you ever try to focus more on healthy food /drink and physical exercise such as skipping/swimming/hanging etc since your parents especially dad is quite short?

[Apulu_3]

Yes for fitness I play badminton and do dancing and for food my mom serves healthy always lol

[fivetotoe]

Ok cool. Just curious how tall is grandmother

[fivetotoe]

And since you don't mind short men , wouldn't you feel bad /sad about your guy being shorter than almost all men and in many scenarios even shorter than females too?

[Apulu_3]

The grandpa I talked about is maternal grandpa. My maternal grandma is also short somewhere near 5'1 or something.

[fivetotoe]

Ah I see. How tall are paternal grandfather/mom and maternal uncles?

[Apulu_3]

I will feel bad for him if he is being criticized a lot for that but he haves me

[fivetotoe]

Can you sense if a guy is short and is feeling bad/insecure by/around you because of your height?

[Apulu_3]

Yes. It depends on his personality mostly.

[fivetotoe]

Despite being short what about him would make him nice and attractive to you?

[Apulu_3]

If he loves me and I also have feelings for him. Height isn't the end of the world.

[fivetotoe]

What about a guy especially his physical things makes an end of world for you?

[Apulu_3]

Weight! if he is overweight then it means he is lazy if it isn't due to medical conditions.

[fivetotoe]

Less weight then?

[fivetotoe]

Slim skinny then?

[Apulu_3]

Dangerously underweight without medical conditions means that he is very picky. It is also a no. Otherwise no problem in skinny.

[fivetotoe]

Ummm as in 5'5 with 50 kg? That's too underweight?
What's your weight

[Apulu_3]

I'm 44 kgs

[Lyndsielee666]

My ex was 5’3 and his little man syndrome was FIERCE. Never again.

[fivetotoe]

How tall are you and in what way was his short man syndrome fierce?

[Lyndsielee666]

I’m 5’2. He was abusive

[Still-alive]

Glad you got out of that

[Lolaaa53553373333]

Nothing I just feel they're usually insecure, I've never dated someone who is over 180 cms, and I really have no idea specifically how tall they were, so I don't feel like we're the issue.

[martyfrazier80]

They just need to stay confident in themselves! Many short guys allow women to take advantage of them!

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Not interested in them enough to have a view on them.

[Paige90]

I think anything below 5'8" is too short for a guy. I prefer 5"10" or taller.

[XXblack88]

5'0 is short I'm 5'4 I don't know any guys 5'0 or shorter

[fivetotoe]

Nice. But don't you think your idea of a short man is quite a bit too short in general? Lol

[HeartFullOfGlue]

I always have this fear that they're gonna bite my ankles

[fivetotoe]

Not so shorter... lol
How tall are you

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Im like 6'11

[fivetotoe]

Damn
That's abnormal

[HeartFullOfGlue]

yeah really sucks ✌️

[fivetotoe]

I feel bad lol

[HeartFullOfGlue]

You dont have to feel bad

[Koalamate]

I feel bad you have to duck doorways

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@Koalamate Yeah man, sometimes I can't fit into chairs at school

[Koalamate]

Like you slide off or? Your thighs are to high and hit the desk?

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@Koalamate my knees are too big to fit under the table

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@Koalamate its just uncomfortable to sit in chairs

[sasha6700]

I perfer guys with good personality

[fivetotoe]

Even if they're short?

[fivetotoe]

How tall are you

[sasha6700]

5'6 tall

[fivetotoe]

If he's a couple of inches shorter?

[sasha6700]

No he is taller than me

[shaysh87]

I can’t date a guy who isn’t at least my height

[Dinklex3]

Not much thoughts.
If you're cute you're cute.

[Flower7]

Dating one feels awkward.

[fonduegirl]

I don't see a problem

[fivetotoe]

How short?

[fonduegirl]

Excuse me?

[fivetotoe]

You don't see a problem with a guy being how short?

[fonduegirl]

Unless he's a dwarf, I won't hold his shortness against him

[Gwenhwyfar]

It’s fine

[fivetotoe]

What's your criteria of short

[Gwenhwyfar]

Shorter than me (5’4”)

[Anonymous]

I don't care