Is it bad to emotionally manipulate women?

[Anonymous]

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Would you be okay with a woman emotionally manipulating you🤔..
It's wrong to emotionally manipulate anyone, regardless of the gender of the person doing it or the gender of the person they doing it to... Being upfront, open and honest is the key to any relationship, whether it's a friend, family member, partner, etc...

[TonyMetal___86]

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[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@TonyMetal___86 sorry the number you are trying to call has been disconnected😂

[TonyMetal___86]

I saw you removing the wire naughty sponge and this will cause you to get you're spongy forehead bitten hard 😬😬

[Vegasrunner]

I don't know about wrong, but it isn't necessarily the best trait to have, unfortunately so much of dating and relationships is females manipulating men that if you don't you run the risk of being the o e always being taken advantage of. Great example is your upfront honest statement. That is complete manipulation right there when it comes to gender relationships.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Vegasrunner how is being upfront and honest manipulation?

[Vegasrunner]

Here's something a lot of guys struggle w/ understanding. When a woman says "Be honest, upfront etc" what she is saying is for HIM to be upfront, honest. etc. This reduces the womans chances of becoming emotionally invested in someone who may hurt them later on. Both sides run the risk of losing each other however, since women typically have more options then men, it's nothing for them to just move on to the next option, while the average guy is probably going to suffer a drought while looking for the next woman. The manipulation aspect is women pretending that honesty is somehow beneficial to men especially considering how much women put into lying to men. Things like makeup, fake eyelashes, push up bras, etc are all things women use to "enhance" their appearance but are false representations of their actual appearances. Women also lie a lot by omission, this is one of the most common examples, others are telling one guy their not "serious" about anyone else but ommiting the fact that they're seeing multiple guys that they're not "serious" about. Another common one is giving a guy a fake number (today it may be more SM handles but that may be more difficult to fake which is probably why ghosting and blocking is a bigger thing now).

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Vegasrunner people fail to get that being honest doesn't mean that someone has to accept... If you honestly tell me you just want a hook up, while I want a relationship, of course I'm gonna appreciate your honesty, but I wouldn't be involved with you past that point, because we want different things. It would be wrong to lie, lead someone on just to hook up with them, knowing that's all you want, and knowing they wanted more. Someone who cheats and lies, thinks of they're honest about it afterwards, they should be rewarded with automatic forgiveness for telling the truth. Their partner is supposed to what, just ignore, forget that he/she lied, broke a promise, broke trust. Being honest isn't always the easy thing to do, but it's the right thing to do

[Vegasrunner]

I agree w/ you the other person dosent have to accept it, which is why men lose in that scenario. So there's no logical reason to he honest about that, what you're saying is if his goal is to get laid then he needs to come up w/ another way to do it. Women have far more options so the honestly saves them time, they get to play the game on easy mode so interviewing and disqualifying guys benifits them because they know there's another one right around the corner. Most guys may be lucky to be in front of 1 woman so they're not going to risk blowing it by being honest. I just had a similar situation last night. In my case I could afford to be honest because I have plenty of other options most guys just don't.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Vegasrunner why not stop using people just to get laid..🤷🏼‍♀️ so you think women should just have sex with men cuz the man wants it, they don't have a right to say who they want🤷🏼‍♀️

[Vegasrunner]

I certainly never said that. Under no circumstance should a woman have sex just because a man wants them to. What I'm saying is womens value to men is sex and if men also want to get what want they want they'll need to be more creative and in some cases dishonest if not then they will fail when it comes to attempting to achieve their objective. Unfortunately those are the rules of the game that men need to play by, women typically dont like it because it gives up some of their sexual leverage which is what is the most important thing to them.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Vegasrunner that's a crock.. only to people that see our say women's only value is sex.. And not all men play games.. The men who think that and treat women that way, that's your problem right there

[Vegasrunner]

To men Womens only value is sex. You are correct there are men who dont play games those are the ones u see on here crying about not being able to get women. It's interesting that you mention my "problem" as if I'm in that group. I've been fortunate to have been w/ more women than the most men will ever be w/ in three lives. It's through these relationships that I have learned what works w/ does and dosen't work and honesty definitely dosent. (There's a reason we have the cliche of how to answer if your wife ask if this dress makes her look fat.) I even referenced one in our original exchange. However that's another example of why honesty w/ women does not work. In reality you and I both know that women play games in relationships at a much higher level and frequency than men, any man that's been in a relationship w/ a woman would easily agree. Are you aware that approximately 90% of all relationship material is purchased by women?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Vegasrunner it's not how many women you can get, how many could you keep? 🤷🏼‍♀️ When you can keep ONE GOOD woman for 20+years, them you got bragging rights, sleeping with lots of women by lying and playing games isn't something to brag about, not in my book anyways

[Vegasrunner]

Lol, you're making the mistake a lot of people make it thinking that what's important to u is important to me. Gender goals are different for men and women. For men the goal is to get women for woman the goal is to keep a man. Men don't care at all about a guy being w/ 1 woman for 20+ All the woman I've slept w/ were "good" woman especially if u ask them. I just wanted "more" woman because that's what's important to me. Also u used another tactic women typically use to keep leverage by making the suggestion that somehow because a man is w/ a lot of women there is something flawed about those said woman. Did you know that women purchase approximately 90% of all relationships? (Guys notice how when u ask women a direct question they avoid providing a direct answer)

[taylorallen]

What do you think. What kind of idiotic question is this.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Manipulate -
to negotiate, control, or influence (something or someone) cleverly, skilfully, or deviously
With that said I would say it is bad to manipulate anyone.

[MCheetah]

It's bad for anyone to emotionally manipulate anyone.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

It’s bad to emotionally manipulate anyone…

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said

[uwu_princess]

And you really asked about it? How would you feel is some1 manipulated you too?

[Blackcupcake]

it's bad to manipulate anyone in any shape or form and the fact that you have to ask this is very concerning.

[LindsayLesling]

Yeah. Life is too short to be mean to other people.

[Anonymous]

Very bad. Be straight up about what you want. She will understand you and love you more, if she's an understanding girl

[Hangry06]

Nope
I sometimes do it for fun but i don't discriminate based on gender

[ninaneedshelp]

Are you really asking? I'm with @WhatTheHeckkkk, @uwu_princess and @blackcupcake.

[sirderpsalot123]

It's almost as bad as you having to ask this question

[Rangers]

It's bad to emotionally manipulate anyone, absolutely

[rabbitzzz]

Not if you are giving her good feelings and done so with good intentions.

[magiusX26]

well no shit sherlock, manipulating anyone is bad period.

[msc545]

My kneejerk response is yes, except women do it to men all the time. So yes it is, for both men and women.

[Dchrls78104]

Is it bad to emotionally manipulate men? Is it bad to groom children? Of course it is!

[Anonymous]

your brain needs to be manipulated so you get your head out of your ass and think normally for once

[Cherry234]

Yes it's a cruel thing to do.

[TonyMetal___86]

Very cruel and such people should be punished!

[SnakeBoop]

its bad to manipulate anyone.

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s bad to manipulate anyone really.

[skyeee_]

gender has NOTHING to do with manipulation

[jahaims]

He didn't say it has anything to do with gender. He asked about a specific form of manipulation. Some people might be okay with emotionally manipulating at work to get ahead but not in a romantic relationship for example.

[sdsalyer1979]

Only if you can manipulate me in bed too😆

[KatherineJ]

It’s bad to emotionally manipulate anyone!

[Anonymous]

No. They do it to men all the time.

[AndrésC64]

This can't be a real question.

[lrina]

yeah duh?

[Sasha_Gee]

It is! O7

[Anonymous]

Shit no
They do it to men and take pride in it.

[Anonymous]

Meh women do it a lot to men. Who cares

[Anonymous]

Is it bad to beat someone up?

[HeartFullOfGlue]

well, yeah probably

[jahaims]

Obviously

[Dinosaursandanime65]

It’s to do it at all

[Anonymous]

that is bad

[Anonymous]

Yes it makes men hot

[Smartgirl_hey]

It also pushes women away who are looking for true love and honesty