If you're bisexual, do you look for similar traits in both men and women?

[MissMolody]

[ChrisMaster69]

I’m straight but have had bi gfs.

some I knew before dating, 1 during.

the general consensus when chatted about this is that it’s more about the person than their sexuality.

it’s about being accepting and not assuming things because the person is not straight.

They are still a person irrespective of their sexuality.

People can still be arseholes irrespective of sexuality and gender.

Other than bisexuality the fact a person likes the same sex, how can they have different traits to anyone else?

[RobT312]

very different for me.
since i have only been with one man for sex i have only been aroused by physical characteristics when it comes to men.
with women, i'm in if for the relationship, so its personality along with physical attraction... and the physical traits i like for women are very different than what i like for men

[laurieluvsit]

No completely different.

I have to have dominant take charge guys, but I want the same as I am in girls, feminine and submissive.

I'm definitely not into the butch lesbian scene, although the best lesbian movie I have ever seen by far starred a butch lesbian but it was the submissive fem co-star that I was loving and relating to... OMG, it was perfect!

[Anonymous]

I am straight but I’ve dated bi women. Things always start on great with them but they are not usually the type to stay committed and satisfied.

I’m not necessarily talking about cheating but they tend to have a “the pasture is always greener on the other side” outlook on a lot things in life. They are not the type to be content with the status quo.

Sometimes that’s a good thing but it can ultimately be very self destructive if you second guess every person, career and activity you do in your life. It leads to misery.

Anyway I would be much more cautious getting into a committed relationship with a bisexual girl. Not saying she isn’t capable of committing but she just had too many options in front of her (especially if she is attractive)

[Anonymous]

I only give head to guys who are shaved down there and have nice cocks, so there isn't much of a personality connection needed. I don't date them, I just like sucking cock. No anal, nothing else. Blow and go. Next.

[Cowboy6666]

I am straight guy but I love Bi girls more as I wanna try FMF, FFMFF someday

[CloudMassacre]

Yeah

[Msputiton]

Nooooo!!!

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not necessarily

[fonduegirl]

Of course

[Kelly6]

No not same

[Bigjake1019]

Kinda can I explain

[Anonymous]

Mostly yes.

[Anonymous]

Usually.