Guys, what is the right kind of women to you?

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HighlyVolatile · Accepted Answer

The best match I've found so far is my wife of almost 12 years now. The quality that I think keeps us together most is communication.

We were good friends for a year before we started dating, and we often found ourselves at the edge of our friends' parties sort of ditching our friends for the bulk of the party just to talk to each other. We're both very skewed on the open end of the spectrum with respect to sharing our thoughts, hopes, dreams, maybe what some people call feelings.

Yet she's also extremely mature and thick-skinned. She's very difficult to offend, and mature enough to always seek to deescalate conflicts with people she cares about, as I too seek to do so, instead of escalating them. The fact that we're both always seeking to deescalate conflicts with loved ones has resulted in marriage completely devoid of any fighting in spite of going through challenging times living together and having our share of disagreements. Instead of fighting over our disagreements, we always end up hugging and laughing and reaching a deep sense of mutual understanding.

On top of that, she has a big sense of humor. That combined with her extremely thick skin are valuable components in honest communication, as joking and finding humor in a variety of jokes can be extremely effective in reducing tensions and deescalating conflicts. Humor functions as a diplomatic tool at times to avoid fighting over something silly, and my wife has a big sense of humor.

She's also submissive but assertive. She's submissive enough to make me feel like a man according to my ideals at the end of the day by letting me take the lead. She trusts me with that ultimate responsibility for decisions that affect both of us. Yet she's also not shy to let me know exactly what she thinks and wants so that I can factor that in. That's important to me because leadership isn't a privilege but a responsibility. The whole point I see of being a leader is to protect my wife and look after her well-being and having a wife that lets me know what she really thinks and wants helps me to do that.

crmoore · Accepted Answer

In short, the sweet, good girl type.

Not in short, when it comes to physique (the first thing I look at but ultimately not as important as who she is on a personal, mental, or emotional level) I like girls who are particularly short. I like girls who are physically delicate and skinny with small frames. I like small breasts and a small, cute rear end. I like girls who are particularly feminine (both physically and mentally). Blue eyes are preferred. I love long, brown, slightly wavy hair (a bit past her mid-back) and especially so if it's in a ponytail, and love a girl whose collar bones and ribs are slightly defined/visible. But I also like girls who are just soft in general (like physically)? When it comes to who she is as a person, I like girls who are really happy, upbeat, optimistic, bubbly, gentle, sweet, kind, caring, benevolent, dependent, clingy, helpless, fairly innocent (but not for too long, lol, or at least just seemingly), warm-hearted, and emotionally delicate (this is super attractive and cute). I think it's extremely cute when girls blush or get flushed. I think psychological neoteny is super sweet, cute, and endearing. I like good girls. I like girls who do cute things like lean over and kiss you on the cheek. I like girls who are a little quirky. I also like to make a lot of physical contact like holding hands and cuddling so that is fairly important. I also really enjoy a girl that I can just be open and honest with. I want the type of girl that I can just feel like I can be myself around and feel relaxed around.

ohshee · Answer

The right kind of woman for me
She looks like herself she must be happy. She must know how to smile she has confidence she has wisdom she has a beautiful heart she is wise she cares she has a Slow Soft Touch she loves to kiss she left at 4 play and she loves to have kinky sex. She must be a lover and she has all of this above that means she's a beautiful person on the inside that's what I care about

CloudMassacre · Answer

I’m not really sure. I’m scared of being with someone kind of, I feel like they would need to be patient with my inexperience and anxiety. I just worry about being an emotional drain on someone or being too anxious about things to be worth it to someone

Quidthonian · Answer

One that understands me and my quirks.
One that understands that I am an introverted nerd with a niche hobby and stuff.
One that is intelligent and complements my lack of social skills.
One which is able to read my mind, or at least my body language and act on it.
One that will have a subject for conversation when I throw the switch and get her to pick a topic.
One what is open to sexual items.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh that's too easy. I'm not going to tell them how to act. Sorry she's going to have to put in a little effort and figure out.
Here's a tip though. Being a decent human being goes a long way towards winning a guy over. You'd be amazed to know how many women struggle with just that though.

Truthatanycost · Answer

Loyal, trustworthy, spiritual, short, attractive, smart, intelligent. She has never taken part in any casual sex or hookup culture and has a non existent body-count.

NamerOfStars · Answer

"To" me, or "for" me? Because I don't have anything against women I wouldn't be a good match with; I just don't date them.

mark000h · Answer

Someone who's kind, loyal, intelligent, has good values, youthful appearance, is a good girl but has a naughty side for me

Now_Here · Answer

Traditional, kind, having good virtues, beauty, religious knowledge and awareness.

johnnygodeep · Answer

Has her own mind and thoughts without any pretense or anything remotely pouting towards obnoxious, and gives it up to me like she wakes up to act a whore for me…

Heilelliotrodger · Answer

Girls that are taller (I'm 5'3) ones who are sweet kind loving towards others monagamous and one that will help me take care of my mom she has muscular dystrophy one who isn't stuck up and one who would NEVER cheat

Anonymous · Answer

Smart, self-assured, affectionate and sexual, healthy, reasonably fit and in good shape, pretty, doesn't wear tons of make-up but rather is naturally feminine - and she's crazy about me! LOL

Shiningtempest · Answer

The right kind of woman for me would be shared hobbies, compatible lifestyle, & having common religious & political view.

standardguy · Answer

Pretty, good heart, does respect me but does not let me abuse her in any way.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Sweet caring Innocent sexually Younger Conservative Loves kids Submissive

PL2022 · Answer

The one that understands that I love to make her cum a few times a day

Anonymous · Answer

Caring, loving, happy, cute and willing to make things work.

mb120101 · Answer

Loyal , smart , funny

Grond21 · Answer

What are the options?

Anonymous · Answer

A virgin waiting for marriage

Anonymous · Answer

Kind, smart, logical, healthy

Fuentes · Answer

If she got a phatty

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