But I have seen most women, in reality, don't give a crap about it and don't actually want men cooking.
They see it as girly and want to feed and take care of their men (as told by some girls). Most girls I know are happy/indifferent about guys taking them to restaurants. At my age or less they want always fun guys rather than responsible ones.
Most want traditional guys. I am thinking of hiding this for future relationships and being more traditional from now on.