How to be logical?

[Sabinagilb]

It seems i have this problem that im emotional and everyone act as if this is a bad thing, i want to change

[UniquelyBasic]

Learn to take a step back and analyze a situation from the outside.

[UniquelyBasic]

Learn to question everything you think is fact as an exercise. doesn't mean you have to change your mind but just ask what if or why.

[Sabinagilb]

Thank you

[UniquelyBasic]

No problem, happy to help

[TommyMountainFigure]

Learn to think with your head and not your heart. That's how you apply logic.

[Sabinagilb]

Too much though in my head wooh that would be a bit hard

[TommyMountainFigure]

Whoever said the logical choice was easy?

[Sabinagilb]

Its not, especially for me that prefer my heart
But a friends of mine who are logical but have some emotions in her acts
I really like the way she is, its make her look mature and smart

[TommyMountainFigure]

Ok let's see if I can give you an example. You know how computers have firewalls to filter out bad stuff from happening? Treat your decision making in a similar way. Also, try separating your wants from your needs.
You might want a guy in your life, even if he treats you bad, but do you need him? no.. you need air, water, food and sleep. See where I'm going?

[Sabinagilb]

Wow thank you!

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're welcome.

[IMuser]

Before replying, take a 10 second pause

Ask questions rather than accuse

Google about stoicism (and maybe stoicism in women)

[Crankor]

It's not really a bad thing. Girls are emotional and guys are more logical. That said too much of any one thing can be a bad thing so just learn to balance it out a bit

[Sabinagilb]

Yes but it seems logical girls are more attractive,

[Crankor]

Guess that depends on how your brain works