Any tips for me?

[Anonymous]

So every guy i have dated either played me or used me how are all these girls finding good guys

[Unknown_Swan_]

Hey, I don't know how old you are (your age description says under 18), so I'm guessing you could be anywhere between the 13-17 age range.

Please do know that not all guys want to play you and hurt you.
I'm a guy and I've been cruelly treated by girls back in my teenage years in similar ways. It's just the luck of the draw unfortunately.
Some poets and writers argue that selfishness is the human condition, but I disagree with that. It's easy to be selfish, but it takes real humanity to actually want to love and genuinely care for a girl or guy, as well as wanting do good by them for the long haul.

You are young, you will find a guy that will fall in love with you like crazy one day. I don't know when it's going to be, it could be someday soon or somewhere in the near future, but please don't give up and don't allow other people's cruelty to define who you are.
That's a big mistake I made.
Please don't lose hope! That's the worst thing you can do.
You just carry on being you, get your schooling done and don't change yourself for anybody. Once you change fundamentally who you are just to please others, that's when you start to feel truly lost and problems become apparent.
Everything's going to be alright, please don't worry.

Best of luck to you anonymous girl, I wish you all the happiness in the world.

[ChrisMaster69]

Try girls..

have you tried to keep things non sexual to reduce the chances of being used or played.

The next guy you date, just keep it very mild for a while, make him wait.

A lot of guys will pretty much say anything to get something from girl.

look at the type of person you have dated so far, what they have said and if you see similar type of guy or one uses similar words, then walk away,

[Asker]

No thanks I’m straight

[Anno2]

You are either naive, you get attracted to men out of your league, they know it and use it to their advantage. Or you have low emotional intelligence, you trust their words instead of their body language.

Read stuff like human mating strategies / human love rituals. Stick to real anthropologists instead of autodidacts.

[Asker]

I am very naive sooo

[In_Trance]

Date different guys.
The guys you look at and think "he's not my type" are most likely exactly your type

[Asker]

Tried

[In_Trance]

Try again