Would you do in this situation?

[RLM75701]

So I've been dating this woman about a month and a half now, and we really hit it off at the beginning. Talked and texted throughout the day, and spent time together when time permitted. We've introduced each other to our families and such. All was well I thought, until this past Friday when she started distancing herself from me and it's gotten to the point where she hasn't said I love you since Sunday night. And now it's one or two words or her not answering at all. I've asked her if everything is ok and she says we're fine. It sure doesn't feel like we're fine. It feels like I'm losing her. What would you do? Any thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Maybe you guys moved too fast, I mean meeting each other’s family, getting into a relationship and saying I love you all within a month is a lot. Personally I’d say not to have major expectations or make any major commitments for at least the first two months, since that’s when everything is all shiny, new and seen with rose colored glasses. What I think’s happening now is the novelty of your relationship is wearing off and you are starting to see who she truly is when she doesn’t have her best face on, and maybe that person isn’t what you thought she was. It’s hard to say exactly where her head is at right now because in a way you are just starting to get to know her and her traits/personality/etc. So go with your gut and if you feel like she’s drifting off then don’t put yourself through emotional turmoil and end it.

[Espresso-Grande]

I would try talking to her again. Explain to her what your have here.

If someone seems to change towards you it's usually because of one of two reasons. They're either slowly pulling away due to lack of interest in you. Or there's an underlying issue that they're not disclosing to you.

If she really wants to be with you she wouldn't want you to feel like you're losing her. So after telling her how it's making you feel she may then put your mind at rest by telling you what's going on in her head.

I honestly believe someone's effort is a reflection of their interest in you.

[Anonymous]

You probably shouldn't take my advice. Because I have a strict rule of treating people how they treat me. If they ignore me I ignore them. She could just be busy with life right now. In which case it'll return to normal. But it's possible she could be flaking on you. And if that's the case what would be the utility in surrendering your dignity? If it were me I would respond in kind and if she doesn't come back... no problem. My life goes on.

Probably not what you wanted to hear.

[Guy13]

I would quit pursuing her. Somehow, I would find a way to have an engagement on whatever day your “go out” day is. It seems to me that’s she’s not all in as you are. You know better than I.

[Nads111]

If she's distancing herself she probably isn't into you as much as she was in the beginning, or is comfortable in the relationship so doesn't put in the effort that she did before or she's got something going on in her life that's distracting her. That's just reasons why I would distance myself, she could have a completely different reason tho.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Perhaps the love died out a little or something is happening in her private life that is distracting her.

[lofii]

Show her she's not as important as she thinks she is.

Go find some new pussy. Don't allow that behavior to ruin your happiness #TB4L