Girls, would you date a 30 year old virgin?

[Anonymous]

Why or why not?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

No.

I'm someone who needs a partner capable of being sexually compatible. Not only are my kinks such that an inexperienced person would be a bad match, but I don't have an interest in "training" a new lover.

Adjusting to a partner's preferences is one thing, but getting someone totally new who doesn't know what they like or what to do? No thanks.

At my age, I expect them to have dated and had sex before. It is more likely someone with previous sexual experience will be more able to connect with me, and I don't like being the first relationship. I've done that enough to know I don't care for it. There's growing to do and I'm already past that particular stage - it would be stepping backwards to date a virgin for me.

I'd only consider people who have experience, know what they want, and can effectively communicate. A virgin can't do that.

[WonderBell99]

No, I would not. I’m 17, why on earth would I date a 30 year old man? His virginity has nothing to do with it, his age does.

However, when I am in my 20s and dating, I would date a single man who is 30 and a virgin. You shouldn’t be embarrassed by something so very trivial. Don’t place a colossal importance on your virginity. If a woman does not date you just because you’re a virgin, she is not the right woman for you. A lot of women won’t care if you’re a virgin. In fact, many would try to make your first time special.

If at all any woman rejects you, maybe it is because both virgin men and women alike have a stereotype of being too clingy after they have sex for the first time. Again, it’s a demeaning, baseless *stereotype* and not all women are judgy

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends on the level of virgin. And the type of person he is.