What should I expect if I start talking to a 34 year old man that's extremely close to his 35 year old sister?

[Anonymous]

I'm 23 years old. The pic down at the bottom is him and his sister. I guess I'm asking because I'm not used to that type of sibling bond.

[LovingLoverReturned]

Is an odd pic.. but let's find excuses together. .
1) you can't make a good judgment based on one picture unless it is explicitly sexual.. observe interactions in real life

2) maybe the angle of the hug cause her hand by default to rest on his leg

3) that chair is pretty slippery looking.. like honestly... for balance they must have held each other..

[Asker]

True but I feel like the picture wasn't my issue. I just connected the pieces on how he sent me that picture and immediately followed up by saying he's really close to her.

[Asker]

Made me wonder how involved is she now and how much in the future

[LovingLoverReturned]

It is a good question. Do you know their past? I mean if for example they were orphaned they knight have formed such a bond...

Or if she may be battling a sickness

... sometimes seemingly innocent relationships can be unhealthy.. I mean a relatuve shouldn't get too much involved or have says in the other's a romantic relationship...

Honestly sometimes even older people aren't ready for a relationship..

but we don't know as yet if his closeness to her will become negative... not necessarily... just to wait

[In_Trance]

You should expect to be back here in a few weeks asking why he isn't changing to who you want him to

[JakeS00]

You could expect her to want to know a lot of stuff.

[Asker]

Ohhh... like up in my business?

[JakeS00]

In a way. Probably would want to know more so she’s in the loop. I wouldn’t stress anything yet unless she’s becoming a nuisance or contacting you for stuff to be nosy.

[Wise4myage]

That sure seems awfully close to me.

[Wise4myage]

Expect normal stuff for the time being.

[Asker]

I agree but I didn't say anything because I thought he would think I'm just hating because I'm not close to my family.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, I hear you.