Why is my sibling like this?

[Maariaaa899]

My sister is very asocial, she doesn't want kids or wants to marry, she never wants to go outside and socialize, she is very logic very smart and why is she like this? She doesn't like people. She kids a guy at 22

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Kissed a guy at 22

[ShadowMonarch]

I can relate to that, some people are just that way, though mostly it happens because they didn't socialize during their childhood period

They do want to date but they are unsure of themselves and have insecurities that dont even exist

[Maariaaa899]

No she doesn't want to date

[ShadowMonarch]

they do say it but most of the time it's not the case

[Maariaaa899]

No she gets offers but she dislikes the men she doesn't feel any attraction

[ShadowMonarch]

Have you ever asked her about why she doesn't like men? What was her answer,
I think I need more context, it's not an easy situation and not a normal one

[jahaims]

Probably undiagnosed autism/she is smarter than most people and gets frustrated at social norms that don't make sense so she just chooses to opt out of everything. If you look at most cultural/societal norms they don't logically make sense. For someone who is logical this can be frustrating and not worth being a part of.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Maybe she just needs encouragement or people she can look up to? Its hard to convince people to get married and have a couple of kids. Plus, the smarter a person is, the less likely they are to want to kids. She could also have another issue but it doesn't sound like it.

[LazerBean]

Maybe she has social anxiety. It seems to me a lot of people who are that antisocial had something traumatic happen to them when their children.

[Maariaaa899]

She does not have social anxiety... but her brains dont work that way

[MrHopper]

Its how she is, and all she needs is for people to accept that it is how she is. We are all different, embrace her for her :)

[boggboss]

Because thats what makes her happy