Girls, What do you look for when deciding if you are interested in a guy's dating profile or not? Or dating in general?

[libsaretards]

Truth be told, I do not know how to date. Both of my prior relationships just happened and in both of them the girl made the first move. I have not dated since 2014 and I was 21. Please help me. If you want to message me your advice instead of posting here, I am open to that as well. Please give me your best pointers on what to include and what to avoid.

[CrazyGirl2]

I don’t do online dating, I get asked out enough in person. So I’m not very familiar with the whole idea of dating profiles. But from what I gather from my friend’s experiences, is that most guys lie on their dating profiles anyway! But the things I look for are honesty, integrity, a good moral and ethical compass, as-well-as a “Must Have”, great sense of humor, and only then do I look at how good looking he is! I understand that when I’m being asked out, all I basically have to go on is his looks, so he must be at least attractive to me. But what I consider “good looking” is not exactly what most of my friends will. I’ve dated every type from muscular jocks, to skinny nerds, and everything in between. My ex-boyfriend Mike was def the muscular jock type, whereas my ex-boyfriend Lee was most definitely a skinny nerd type. Yet when all of his qualities were added up, he was very handsome, and I was extremely attracted to him! In other words, I def do not just go for the muscular “pretty boys”.

[AlexM007]

Not majorly usually the way they come across, there intrests and there tone are usually initial ones

[Selene1600000]

You don’t need “game” you need a simple structure and a bit of repetition. Start with this: meet women through apps or real life, keep conversation light (ask about them, share a bit about yourself), then ask them out clearly (“let’s grab coffee this week”); on the date, focus on vibe smile, listen, tease a little, and show interest instead of trying to impress. Avoid overthinking, oversharing too early, or waiting forever to make a move be direct, keep it simple, and treat dating like a skill you improve with practice.