Do you ever linger around your crush?

[Anonymous]

like do you purposely make sure you are in the same area as him or her? you dont talk but make sure you are around them somehow? this person that has a crush on me but is mad at me that no longer talks to me but is always somehow someway where i am and crossing my path. i am not sure if its to get me to say hello or what try conversating?

[DirkCoenen]

To want to be around someone you like is normal. Why is she angry with you? Did something happen? Maybe you can talk to her and approach her first and talk it out. It'd be a shame if you're missing out on a lovely friendship or relationship.

[Asker]

the person had 2 years to do something, date, talk, go out, i waited for them after sending a note, then that person wound up still gaslighting me, while dating tons of others i did not know about. so i asked to speak with them and their thing was if the talked to me or texted or called they woudl have to deal with their feelings? i was confused and tired of the games, so the next day i said i met someone and i was dating someone, because i think that person hurt me enough. so now they just are always around me, won't speak, but always where i am we work at the same place

[DirkCoenen]

Ah, that does clarify it a bit. That behaviour is not normal and uou should avoid her at all costs

[Asker]

thank you

[Agent_Elflord]

I do, but I stopped doing that now that I’ve learned that it’s a bit stalker-ish.