Should I give my number to my handsome neighbor or does guys find that creepy?

[nonamestreet_]

We have a new neighbor at our summer house. Across from our house a guy (33 years old) bought a house with he lives in all year round. I've met him briefly a couple of times and one time my family invited him over for dinner with us. He is super nice and very handsome. We have a few things in common and he really seems like a nice guy. My dad and him get a long very well also it seems.

From the day he had dinner with us I can't stop thinking about him and I want to make a move but I don't know if it's super weird. I wanted to make contact naturally by walking past and chatting or inviting him for a walk but since it's summer he comes and goes a lot and also has friends over.

That's why I'm wondering if it's creepy to write him a note with my number and a short message and put in his mailbox?

Is it weird for a girl to do that and is the age difference a problem?

I really appreciate your thoughts on this!!

[Guy13]

I would not take it as Creepy. I would be very flattered. If I was not comfortable, I would also tell you so. He's man SO he knows how to handle it better than say another 24 year old... Go for it, why not? If he has friendship with your Dad now then that could be a conflicting dynamic.

[slatyb]

Thats not creepy. Go ahead. He may be crushing on you too. In the message, invite him over to your place for lunch or dinner or out to coffee or whatever works for you. Don’t worry about the age difference. Most men are eager for attention from younger women.

[laurieluvsit]

I see nothing at all wrong with it.

Forget what everyone else thinks, do what you feel you want to do.

[LikeALog]

Have your family invite him over again. Afterwards, drop a notes at his door telling him you enjoyed talking with him and invite him for coffee or lunch.

[chicosuave]

No. For us men there's no such thing as creepy. That terminology only comes from the feminist. So go ahead and shoot your shot. Just make sure he is not emotionally committed to any other girl