Girls, Would you think less of a guy if he lost an athletic competition to a girl?

[Anonymous]

I joined an upper level martial arts class that specializes in real life self defense.

I was fighting this woman in her 40s, and even though I'm much bigger than her, she took me down and won the fight.

[VanessaValentine]

a little yes.

[Asker]

Have you done a martial art?

[VanessaValentine]

Don’t need to I have a boyfriend who is 6’ 2” that doesn’t get beaten by 40 year old women. He’s really strong and can pick me up really easily. He’s the type of guy that his friends know not to “play fight or wrestle with” because they would probably get hurt.

[Asker]

I’m pretty tall too but I wasn’t expecting her to kick me in the balls to take me down

[VanessaValentine]

That’s illegal. No martial arts ever allows that. That is an immediate disqualification. So you actually won. Congratulations. 🎉

[Asker]

Since it’s self defense based it’s a legal target. We wear cups but it still hurts with the cup

[VanessaValentine]

Cap.

[melanieeeB]

No, why would I?