Am I wrong/ weak for crying over a girl?

[Anonymous]

Ok, to be honest, I think me and this girl broke each other's hearts at the same time. We both misunderstood our text messages, and both got upset. I wanted her to ask me out, and she wanted me to do the same. But it went all wrong. She ended up crying, and then months later, I randomly started crying. I think I really have feelings for her, but she recently said she's meeting up with a guy on her FB to hang out... And in her comments, people were making dating jokes that she replied to and laughed at. And tbh another girl that knows her like me, and when she texted, I weeped cause I wished it was her. I'm a wimp right? Lol

[Anonymous]

You caught the worst communal disease possible: feels

There's nothing wrong with crying, Hun. It takes a strong man to deny his emotions, in out society it takes a stronger one to accept and express them. Tears happen, let them out, feel what you need to feel, and then when you're ready move on stronger and healthier.

By the way, I won't date a man who's not strong enough to cry. No, it's not sexy, but it's comforting to know a man feels because then I know he can relate.

You got this.

[Asker]

Thanks 🥹😃💯

[FallonSamuels]

Emotions just show that you’re human and they’re not a sign of weakness

[Asker]

Thanks

[exitseven]

I was going to say no, that if you are really hurt it's okay for a guy to cry but you have not really been hurt. You need to find your soulmate in bed with somebody else for that kind of hurt. Put your big boy pants on and get on with your life.

[Asker]

So true. You’re right

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[FilmGuy93]

Eh. It's not great, but you're allowed to have feelings.

[Asker]

Lol I know💯

[Blackcosmo]

Of course you're not. Crying is normal and you have every right to.

[Asker]

Thanks. That made me feel better.

[Light909090]

Crying is only Normal
if you have emotions.

[Asker]

I agree

[Wise4myage]

Its normal dude.

[Asker]

True