So in regards to Southern white girls, how many of them are actually masculine, obese, tomboy, types? I want a traditional and feminine type woman?

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’ve met a limited number of Southern white girls before. And that was not my impression of them.

Surely it must be true for at least some of them though, or else it wouldn’t even be a stereotype to begin with.

That being said, I want a woman who behaves like a princess. I want a woman who’s timid and afraid of things.

I want someone who’s traditional.

And I don’t want some selfish b*tch who thinks abortion should be a woman’s choice and feels entitled to my money.

If there’s Southern girls that can account for all those things, I’d be quite happy with them!

I just simply cannot find what I am looking for here in the Northeast.

If you want a quick and easy f*ck, here is the place to be. But I’m looking for something much deeper though.

[ShadezMcgee]

I believe a lot of your problem is you are transfixed on reconfirming your established biases.

I have been to the south and there are a lot of feminine women that enjoy masculine things but still maintain their femininity. Women are allowed to have personality and identity outside of traditional norms.

You are just not really looking hard

[WhiteBoyChill]

I wouldn’t want my girl to be one of the bros. Just saying man

[ShadezMcgee]

So humor me. Your belief is that if a woman enjoys doing masculine things or can do masculine things to make her life fun and easy, she is immediately classified as a "bro"? Like if she knew how to so her own car maintenance and could fix her own house, plumbing and things like that, she is a bro and not feminine?

Is that what you are saying?

[WhiteBoyChill]

In my view yes. I’m the man so its my job to do those things

[ShadezMcgee]

So you want a damsel in distress or a woman who is highly dependent on you to the point of no independence of her own or yours?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah I want a damsel in distress.

[ShadezMcgee]

Why though? Why do you want your potential woman to be overly reliant on you? Should she not be able to pull her weight or bring something of use to the table outside of being a homebody? Why should she be restricted to house and being a mom only?

Furthermore, would you be able to make enough bank to give her that lifestyle you envision for her? In this economy it is no longer a feasible life to rely on one spouse's income, especially for the average person. Unless you are some multimillionaire and still do well enough after taxes, you should keep an open mind to some things

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don’t get why people keep saying that. All the women in my family are housewives.

[WhiteBoyChill]

And I don’t want my woman fixing cars and doing manly shit cuz I’d rather take care of it myself

[WhiteBoyChill]

And in terms of useful things she can do, I’d want cooking and cleaning as her primary responsibility.

[ShadezMcgee]

Because people value their independence and don't like being restricted and in today's day, a lot of women like being able to do things men can do. Everyone has their preferences and I am not knocking yours, so take it easy. I was merely telling you what was up and the reality of the situation in front of you and asking to see where you were coming from and why you felt that way. All I saw was that in your perspective that women who did masculine things were not feminine when in fact that is false.

Women are capable of being feminine and can still do masculine shit. Just takes the right guy to make her want to embrace it.

What I was commenting was also in relation to what you want in tradition. How much of those things we talked about (income, fixing cars, protection, be the sole pillar for your wife and potential children) can you truly do if we are being real here? Do you embody all the traits like the men all the women in your family married and are housewives for?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yes I do embody their traits.

[ShadezMcgee]

What are the traits they have? How much of these things can you realistically do as a man without lying and saying it as a flex or ego concern? You never answered that part.

[LazerBean]

Traditional does not equal week. If anything it means the opposite. I'm just saying that because your post seems to indicate you think otherwise. There are a lot more traditional women in the South than there are in the North, but most of them are not going to be the kind of weak and useless person you seem to be looking for.

[Subarugirl]

Then you have to be someone that those kind of women are attracted to...… and from the way you talk about women on here, you are certainly not...

[WhiteBoyChill]

Oh well

[Subarugirl]

Southern ladies would eat you alive lol

[WhiteBoyChill]

Can’t please everyone

[Subarugirl]

I would be more concerned about being able to please anyone if I were you

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah because you’re a woman. Men don’t exist to satisfy other people. Not unless its our family anyway

[Subarugirl]

Lol 😂 and you expect to find a whimpy little girlfriend even though you can’t satisfy her… right, we’ll have fun with that

[WhiteBoyChill]

You better believe she’ll be satisfied in bed. There is no question about that

[Subarugirl]

With how selfish and entitled you act... yeah right lmao XD

[WhiteBoyChill]

If she enjoys it more, I’ll enjoy it more.

[MzAsh]

If you want a woman who’s traditional then you’ll have to qualify to her first. Be what SHE wants first. After all, that is the traditional way.

[007kingifrit]

that's not a common problem at all

[Anonymous]

I suppose a certain percentage.

[WhiteBoyChill]

By your estimate, how much fit the tomboy, and how much fit the feminine

[Opinion Owner]

I have no idea.