Guys, Are you single or taken currently? Describe your love life for the last year?

[Anonymous]

Please be honest. If you’re embarrassed by it then you might want to answer anonymously.

[ARWINGx1]

(Single)

I could try and list everything, but at least with what comes to mind: (no point in dwelling on it anyway)

My upbringing/childhood have been a bit effed up, so I have a feeling that it have negatively influenced my perception on dating. With a lot of "wrongs", or "red flags"

One of many reasons/examples would be that... (and, I apologize for any negative interpretations) how early I'd want sex... in this example, it'd be *much* too early for most. Enough so that they wouldn't respond to that well.

Also, at least from what I've understood, pretty much everyone would want to be in a relationship, (at least eventually) but the thought of how "committed" the 2 of us would expect from each others, for starters, I would imagine that it'd be enough to give me a (metaphorical) headache.

Plus that I can't help but "fear" that "our" relationship would only deteriorate from then on.

I mean, although I want me and my what-if/would-be to be happy, the flaws that I worry about, (those that I haven't described... Yet.) would make me seem like a hypocrite.

[Asker]

Everyone can change though. Have you thought about getting counseling or even talking to a friend about it? I’m sure that one day you would want to have someone by your side like when you are old? what are the flaws you worry about?

[ARWINGx1]

Well, I used to have a few "girl friends" that I could ask for more insight.
Unfortunately, I've lost contact with each and every one of them, each for a different reason/"issue" on their end, And in turn, I was no longer able to ask for more hints on how I'd improve a potential relationship.

Though I do remember one friend who did say that I was (sort of) a "control freak". BUT, with good intentions.
But I digress.

Anyway, the biggest one, is that I'm the kind that puts logic above emotions, and so, the latter is something that I struggle to understand.
Such as that whenever my what-if/would-be would try to "indirectly" hint at something, it would tend to "slip under my radar". 'specially one that could "hurt" her feelings as a result.

And, this might be 'cause of my mom, but I can't help but get over the assumption that e̲v̲e̲r̲y̲ woman/"girl" are entitled to have more privelages in a relationship. Which they can easily exploit.

[ARWINGx1]

(sh**, got one of the bits wrong: "---But I can't get over the assumption that---")

[DannyUk2017]

Single since 15y ago, been too hurt to try getting someone, so i enjoy life now. Introversion suits me, but if it is to go out... i go with the flow...
I love my porn, and fantasy, si i can say i'm a happy "junkie", lmaoo... just messing around...🤣🤣

[FunkyMonkee]

Y'know how, when you go to a book store to buy a new diary and, when you open it up, all the pages in it are blank? That's my love life for the past 21 years!!

[FilmGuy93]

I've basically been single, but I've kinda started seeing someone.

[jamesgoldman]

Single, not got time to mingle unless business is involved

Haven't dated in 8 years now

[Calenderagressive]

my crush but I feel I'm too shy and are waiting for her to make a move on me but eh if that doesn't work i can just pick one of the 500 girls who have a crush on me

[TroyDT]

Single since May. She moved for a job in Colorado.

[Noodle_fan]

had been single for 9 years , but occasionally still going out for dates

[clampfan101]

I haven’t had a love life for the past 10 years! 😢

[SlothySlob]

Single, haven't loved anyone for years.

[Harbringer26]

I'm not emberrassed at being single.

[shortster]

Single. Striking out left and right.