Girls, What is it that really attracts us to another person?

[Drax4477]

[PrettyPriya]

If you are asking what the most attractive thing I see in a partner (meaning relationship) then it would have to be personality. That is number one on my list of qualities that I look for when dating or a relationship.

His personality has to mesh well with mine. A personality is made up of a lot of character traits but they have to work well with my personality. Do I expect him to have everything just the way I want it? No, of course not. Just enough of them similar to mine.

I look for a guy that is a gentleman, good manners, kind, compassionate, caring, sense of humour... the list goes on and on. As long as he has a fair amount of what I am looking for then I will consider dating that person.

Second to that, there are a bunch of just normal things I have preference with. Intellectual and can hold a conversation. Hard working. Good moral values.

Now, of course I have to be physically attracted to him but that is second and maybe even third to many other qualities. You can be the best looking guy in the world with the worst personality. I wouldn't give that guy the time of day.

[Avadarling]

Number 1 for men that are attracted to women: looks

number 1for women that are attracted to men: behavior which involves: tension, entertainment, dominance. Obviously looks are still a factor

[dustybiker]

It’s biology.

[Anonymous]

Personality