What’s the best quality you lookout for in a significant order?

[donaldbull48]

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Thanks for your opinions and you’ve all spoken pretty well.

[SueShe]

I presume that you meant "a significant other" rather than order.

Now, If I was into dating or even looking for a partner, he should have a number of qualities. To me, the most important things about a person, regardless whether this person is to date, to talk to or just to be with are:

- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Positive thinking
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Truthfulness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Body hygiene

That about summarizes what I seek in another person. I know that will be difficult, but I can still hope, no?

What I am not interested the least are looks, cult of the personality, physique, height, weight and for those that are so worried about that small detail, the size of their penile appendage. That is totally not relevant to me.

It seems that intellect, character and personality are qualities that seem to have faded with the younger generation and that they are more of those that were born during the baby boomer years (1955 to 1970). A shame that a great number of young people do not place much importance on those qualities.

[PrettyPriya]

Up late here so last post. Should you reply, I will get you back sometime (my) morning. 1000% personality if I have to say what I look for most in a guy when considering dating. Personality consists of many things and character traits.

Will he have them all? No, that is very unlikely. If he has a good majority of what I look for, I’ll be happy. I just need someone that has a personality that meshes well with mine.

Im kind of a goof and silly, even at my age. So, having a sense of humour is important to me. I love to laugh. My SO and I are always teasing each other (lovingly) and poking fun. It makes things in our house fun. Oh the stories I have.

Aside from that, I look for a guy that is a gentleman and is genuine. No need to be fake and out of a show. Just do those little things that make me feel special and I will return the favour for sure.

I can go on and on about personality but those are just a few points. I’ll expand if you wish when I’m up. Have a great night and weekend.

[AmandaYVR]

Metronomic-like rhythm. "Ein, zwei, eins, zwei..."

lol. It's a typo, probably, but this is funnier and a more unique q.

Compassion. And if I get a bonus, emotional intelligence. Or I might switch the order.

[dustybiker]

How they treat others around them. That is my number one on anyone. People who can turn a checkers frown into a smile in a few moments has a gift.

[Nikki1989]

Personality, sense of humor, honesty.