Am I too young to be thinking about dating seriously (22)?

[Anonymous]

Why this guy (26) I am talking to and hopefully looking to get into a relationship with say at 22 I'm too young to think about having a serious relationship and that I should go live life. Is this a red flag? Or am I truly too young to be thinking of such things?

[Anonymous]

You can live your life whilst in a relationship. You don’t have to marry and have kids straight away. But if your idea of living life is hook up culture etc (no judgment at all) then getting into a relationship probably isn’t a good idea.

[Asker]

No, I don't want to hookup. But I'm wondering if that is a red flag if the guy I'm talking to said that.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s a weird thing to say. Could just be his way of saying he isn’t interested maybe?

[Thepumpkinhead]

No you should really start dating seriously at that age

[Thepumpkinhead]

He's saying you're too young from hid point of view because he's 26 and you're 22

[Aerolyn]

It's not a matter if you're too young, it's more of a matter do you want to and do you feel like you're ready to.

Either way you're an adult now, you can and should do whatever you want.

[Sandeeppingping]

Huge red flag, dude talking you into getting in a casual relationship with him don't be fooled bruv

[LazerBean]

Being is a serious relationship doesn't stop you from living your life. I've been married for 3 years at 22 and it's been mega fun. Usually only hoes discourage serious relationships.

[FilmGuy93]

Meh. That's not where I was at that age, mostly because I had no idea where I was heading in life. If you have a greater sense of clarity about all that, then go for it, I guess.

[Berethor]

You over 18 so you are not too young, looks like he wants to use you so yea a red flag.

[20yearsolder]

You're the one that knows whether you're ready for a real relationship.

[joeldalton]

If you're comfortable with it. Dating isn't marriage.