Why do women often reject me when I want to meet them?

[Majo323]

I am a nice man. And handsome.

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They often don't want to reply to me and stop replying to my messages. They ignore me and generally act like I don't exist. I think they are closed to new relationships. They may also have a past where someone hurt them.

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I live in Slovakia and this is my sad reality. And I would like the ladies to like me and pay attention to me. I want them to love me and be open to me.

[river23]

I don't really think that's something anyone else can truly answer, I mean especially with so little to go on. It's really only something you can answer and I'm gonna be blunt but not tryna be mean maybe you should add some more details to your question what details you add is up to you but it might help others be able to help you and answer in the best way to help you, ya know.

[river23]

Well I'm glad you added more, but I feel you. I mean I'm actually the type of girl who's also afraid of any relationship I have trust issues cuz like you stated girls have been hurt sometimes and I'm one of them but I'd never act like someone didn't exist I mean it'd probably be awkward but if a girl likes me and I liked him or it was only one way affection mine or his I'd at least wanna know how they feel and I'd tell them how I feel I'd wanna see if we could be friends cuz why not and then I'd try and find a reasonable and good way to solve it. I don't know why woman would be that way towards you I can't really speak for any woman because I have never had a chance to be a woman myself so I don't know much but I know enough and I'm sorry if this wasn't helpful but I do hope things get better for you okay. You seem like a nice man maybe it's not you but the woman who find you or the ones you find I dont know for sure so don't take this to heart okay and just keep searching or just wait for the right woman to come to you ya know like people say in fairytales and in real life but don't believe will actually happen, try searching for her or let her search for you either way it'll end up alright sure their will be pain and hardship and I myself like to believe that's for you to learn and be able to overcome any obstacles or hurdles in the road to the one relationship and person that will stay with you forever ya know. But like I said just my belief and opinion, use it or interpret it how ever you want.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's your personality?

[Majo323]

By thinking and worrying about it all?

[dustybiker]

Maybe it’s the way you communicate? Maybe ask one of them if they see something about you that pushed them away.

It would be hard to ask and brutal to hear, but then you have something to work on. we can’t tell to help from where we are.

[Sour-rose]

Ya want, and ya want... how about just be fine with one that will come to you that ya don't notice until she brings it to ya attention? Maybe that'll help

[KelleyNice]

To get what you want, you must smarter and better looking than most guy. You must very athletic and you must earn a lot of money.

[Majo323]

It's not true.

[KelleyNice]

Men with those characteristics have no problem attracting women. Perhaps you can enlighten and inform me by naming other characteristics that attract women.

[Majo323]

I believe in the Power of Thought and the Law of Attraction. It doesn't matter about money or possessions. It's just a matter of having a good heart.

[CA4444]

Could be sex, they don’t want sex too soon and close you off cause they think tahts what you want

if not then it’s about you, or you have a type for unavailable women or smth