Please help me understand this? (EMERGENCY36)?

[Jonah234678]

If a guy says: Hey, I don’t think I’m ready for a relationship, can we just stay as friends” and he has low self esteem issues and never been in a relationship, but held my hands few times and after that he had told me he wants to move slowly and see where things go, should I be friends and move on or just move on?

[CallyKat89]

It’s up to you. Do you really want to wait for this person? I wouldn’t. Boyfriend behavior is reserved for boyfriends. Don’t let this guy act like your man and reap those benefits without commitment. His self-esteem issues are not your responsibility to fix. You are under no obligation to be his first run at a relationship either. Do you want to move slowly and see how things go? You know your worth and you know how you want to be treated.

[Jonah234678]

It’s like I would rather be friends and move on with my life cuz we built a good one by now

[Guy13]

Did you wait for this one...