A girl I like has been telling me about her mental health a lot, and recently told me her diagnosis. Shoud I also share mine with her?

[Anonymous]

I never share it with people, except my best friend, therapist and significant others. She's a friend, who I like a lot and she seems to like me I think

She has sort of barged into my life, we work together and talks to me a lot and has broken and gotten inside my barrier against people. I'm schizotypal so that's usually how my relationships and friendships happen, and man do I like her right now

I feel her sharing that with me was special and didn't think about sharing my issues until now. I usually attract neurodiverse people, and she very much fits the bill

Should I tell her and see if we bond more over that?

[Guy13]

She could sense you about you. Whether to tell her or not is up to you. She knows something is going on with you..

[Asker]

Why do you think she does? Because she's had to break into my space to get to know each other?

[Guy13]

Birds of a feather flock together. People know their own. It’s not just a girl thing. Guys sense it too.

[Asker]

Very true I guess. All my friends have a degree of neurodiversity. My best friend is a well known Psychiatrist, lol, and he could read my issues like a book. I think most of my girlfriends have been special to some degree also

[Guy13]

I tend to be orderly, organized, and analytical. Can’t do that with the personal stuff. She feels good getting it out so that’s enough. Don’t pressure yourself to keep up with her. Enjoy her…and each other 😎

[devilish-cutie]

sems like she has to find out one way or another and if she already shared her diagnosis maybe you can risk it and share yours as well

[restop99]

One way or another if we end up together, or end up as best friends or something. Otherwise I'd be telling someone who ends up being a stranger. But I'll do it, she was willing to share her issues, I should be too