Are blonde guys less attractive or is it all relative?

[Anonymous]

[AmandaYVR]

They're not unattractive.

My first boyfriends were more blonde than dark haired. Eventually I became more attracted to dark, but it doesn't matter, it's really about the person.

Maybe the phrase "tall, dark, and handsome" exists and not "tall, blonde, and handsome" because there's a certain stereotype of broodiness that both females and males like to see in other males. (It's not always sexual. It's more of a respect thing, like in the case of straight males.) Blondes/blonds have a stereotype of being lighter, fun-loving. But people often expect guys to "grow up", "man up", whereas females mature quicker, but also are more accepted as being less strong.

Any hair colour can be attractive.

My second boyfriend, I considered a blond, but it was really because his medium natural blond/almost light brown hair was naturally bleached by the sun, because he was out so much in it training for the Olympics. And he always downplayed his looks. And that's nothing sexier than a man who cares not about his inherent attractiveness.

[Anonymous]

Not important. It's just hair.