Girls, What are your top 5-10 attributes that you look for in a man?

[Motheman]

[Anonymous]

Honesty, wisdom, empathy, knows how to take care of himself (I don’t need to mother a grown man), introverted but has a support system around him other than myself (friends, family), has an understanding of physical and mental illness and doesn’t look down on others for having such, isn’t a gym rat (I don’t need a man who’s at the gym 24/7), has hobbies that he enjoys, and has at least some experience with relationships or sex before me. I’m not interested in being someone’s first girlfriend or taking their virginity, people learn a lot of life lessons in their first sexual encounters or relationships and I’m not interested in giving those life lessons.

[Anonymous]

In no particular order, here are 10 attributes: humility, honesty, spirituality, peace, silliness, wisdom, empathy, creativity, generosity, and health.

[Motheman]

So not wealth or strength or ability to protect.

[Opinion Owner]

correct. my standards for him are my standard for myself. i’m not strong physically to fight or wealthy so I don’t expect it of him