My boyfriend says I bug the shit out of him?

[Anonymous]

I know I can be annoying.

I wish I was this calm chick who bothers no one.

But I'm always happy and excited.

He called me a name and he said it's because I bug him. I'm hurt because i was taking him out to celebrate.

I understand i am really annoying like all the time. I really dont mean it.

I won't lie... this hurts. Bad

She I force myself to shut up?

[Summeroflove]

At least he was honest. We all have stuff we need to work on. If you find yourself annoying him. Then stop

[FilmGuy93]

You should probably just find yourself someone who enjoys your bubbly personality. Don’t try to force something with a man who tolerates you.

[Anonymous]

It’s not like you have something wrong with you, but I’m questioning your compatibility with one another.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think you should have to become a different person around the one person who you’re supposed to feel the most comfortable around to be yourself, you know?

[Asker]

Yea I mean he mostly let's me do that but I think I'm starting to get on his nerves. He gets like this when he's "tired" but we have a personality clash for sure. he's more laid back I'm more hyper and outgoing

[Opinion Owner]

People outgrow each other. Don’t know how long you’ve been together, but during the couple years, we’re often on our best behavior, and slowly, as time goes by and we get more and more “settled” with one another, our truest selves emerge, shit gets real, and there’s no more romanticizing irritating behaviors.

[Opinion Owner]

I’d seriously consider spending the rest of your life with this person if this is how he gets around your true self

[dustybiker]

I would find someone else. He doesn’t seem that great to live around himself.

[chicosuave]

what are the traits you are doing that makes him think that way? do you talk to much, what?

[gag6474]

i dont see any problem with you. maybe he had a bad day

[Wise4myage]

He just doesn’t sound like a good match for you.