Going on a date with an escort any advice?

[Anonymous]

Making it clear I don't want to have sex with her and I don't want her to ask too many questions or talk too much overall

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Making it clear because no one got it right
It's not a romantic date, I pay her and I requested she not allowed to touch me

[kylee2437]

My best advice is do not try to change her lifestyle. You will have to accept the fact that she is who she is. Yes she has sex with men for money, no that is not something you should be going for if you can’t accept her lifestyle.

[Asker]

I don't want to change her lifestyle, I'm paying her

[kylee2437]

Why are you paying her to go on a date with you?

[Asker]

Because that's what you pay an escort for, a date. An escort it's not a prostitute

[kylee2437]

Escort is a professional term for prostitute. They are the same thing.

[Asker]

Escort, definition: a person who may be hired to accompany someone to a social event.
Read a dictionary sometimes, I don't need or interact with common prostitutes

[kylee2437]

@asker there was a point in my life where I could’ve been an escort and that opportunity had to do with sex with randoms. I know what I am saying lol

[Asker]

I'm not having sex with her
Stop pushing it jfc
I just pay her to sit next to me and be pretty

[kylee2437]

Where did I say you were having sex with her? I said you should accept the fact that she is most likely having sex with men for money as well and it’s something you can’t change. That’s my advice here

[Asker]

I don't want to change that because I don't care about it tbh
She can get rammed by donkeys for all I care

[kylee2437]

Well that is my advice. There’s a man on here that literally advised you to change her , so my advice is , is don’t. You haven’t met her and you don’t know what your emotions will feel until you have met someone and know them

[Asker]

Meh
I already know she'll probably make me uncomfortable or ask too many questions

[AsaKyo]

Cancel the date and go get a real girlfriend

[lightbulb27]

Tell her what you do want her from her and have fun getting to know her as a person. Otherwise, she can't wait to leave. If you are paying her, I'd get a massage, snuggle time... why not. girls love it when a guy opens up emotionally.

[Asker]

No massage and no snuggle time, I don't want her to touch me on the first datr

[lightbulb27]

talk to her, seems simple. treat her like she's worthy.

[Anonymous]

You can always change her career path if she loves you deeply enough, she will change for you.

[Asker]

I don't want her to love me, I'm paying her

[kylee2437]

Trying to change a person is manipulation and abusive.

[Opinion Owner]

@kylee2437 not as much as being a prostitute is. My girlfriend was an onlyfans model and I changed her.

[kylee2437]

You didn’t change her, she changed herself. If you threatened to leave her because she did onlyfans, I hope one day she finds the strength to leave you

[Asker]

All she has to do is stand there and look pretty
Nothing more