Do white guys date girls who have "dated" black guys?

[Anonymous]

This is a topic that's been tossed around quite a bit in the past (and I wanted to get a current sentiment), but this is for non-black guys, or non-black girls.

As a non-black guy, would you date a girl who has dated or messed around with a black guy. In several circles I've lived in, among white guys, the answer is typically no.

For non-black girls, if you have dated a black guy, has this become an issue for a non-black boyfriend (or dating prospect) in the future.

[Anonymous]

Not a chance.

The funny thing is I'll date Asian, Latina, Black, or any other race of women who have dated Black guys and it doesn't matter to me but not White women.

I think there's too much bad blood with all that pathetic Cuck and BBC porn that's all based around the theme of white women cheating on their White partners, and White women purposely trying to use their relationships with Black guys to degrade and disrespect White males. Plus White women seem to have a thing for Black guys so if she has a history with them it's stupid to date her.

Plus I'm not that attracted to White women anyway, so Why bother with them.

[Asker]

So, if I can summarize, you wouldn't date a white girl (if you were interested) who has done this because the idea is that she did it to entertain a fetish while simultaneously "putting it to" white men (perhaps her father)?

[Opinion Owner]

Well, I don't see people having interracial relationships as a fetish, but more a preference. Everybody knows that some White women have a preference for Black guys, but they try to marry a White guy for his money, to have White babies, and to have the appearance of a marriage that would fit in to her White family. Then she'll cheat with every Black guy that she can or try to Cuckold her White husband and have an open marriage.
No thanks, that sounds like hell.

[FilmGuy93]

In my observation, the white women I've known who have dated black men haven't been the kind of ladies I would date anyway. If she was a dateable lady though, I don't think I would see her prior relationship with a black man as an issue.

From an American cultural standpoint though, I certainly understand why certain white men would see that as a red flag.

I have met black men, just as white men, of MANY different calibers lol

[HighValue]

Usually they won't. Most Hispanic men I have known also wouldn't date a woman that has done that for the same reasons.

Most people don't openly admit it though so some people think it is rare, but if you know someone well and they trust you, that is the case for many people. It is also the case for many women and they also don't normally admit it unless they trust you.

[HighValue]

I do think that part of the reason is because most of the women that do date Black men tend to be liberal/democrats. So even if they didn't date one or the guy had no knowledge of it, she would still have the kind of personality that he would want to avoid.

[Phoenix98]

I don’t care personally and I also don’t ask for info on people’s exes. So half the time I have no clue who they dated or what race they were because it doesn’t matter.

[Asker]

That's the best policy usually (don't ask, especially for too much info)- the only potential problem I see with that is that most men have some hang up that has to do with a woman's past. Race can be one factor, number of partners can be another. Certain situations like threeways, or gangbangs can be another thing in a girls past that someone could consider a deal breaker, and if you do not ask what do you do if/ when it comes up?
Say you just enjoy the relationship, go nearly a year with her then find out something that is an absolute turn off? What do you do at that point (not you personally, I mean rhetorically).

[Phoenix98]

I guess it would depend on what exactly it was.

[Asker]

It's just rhetorical- but I agree you don't want to get into particulars. Say your girlfriend is a virgin, but she gave a bj before. Do you need to ask about the guy? His race, how big his D was, if she swallowed or spit? Of course not- only the rare cuck could deal with that type of knowledge. However, if you have certain things that you know if existed wouldn't permit you to see her the same way, it may be important to ask at some early point.

[God_of_Thunder]

I have, and I would again.

I don't give a crap if she's dated white guys, black guys, purple guys, or Klingons; I'm not racist, and it literally doesn't matter.

[FunkyMonkee]

That's more of a girl question. Supposedly, once you go black, you never go back. So, ask THEM if they ever fuck another white guy after fucking a black one.
I used to be with a black girl that never fucked anything but white guys!

[Asker]

I've done the same, with a few actually, but I've also dated a girl long term who had been with a couple half black guys, I'm white looking, and I blew her back out. Ultimately I broke up with her because of the disgust factor though.
The question was precipitated by my own aversion to this, but you can also see if on multiple postings on Reddit, opinion articles etc.

[Anonymous]

I do not want to date a white girl that has dated a black guy in the past or who finds black guys attractive.

[CALIGVLA]

I'm not into cuckoldry, so my answer is negative, I wouldn't get into anything more serious than casual sex with a white woman with a black man fetish.

[Googlemyahoo]

Usually the girls who do that adopt the style & clothes of that culture and white girls for some reason start wearing pony tails on top of their heads & they won’t go back to whiteys

[MountAverage]

Why do you say "white guys" as if it was synonymous with "racist white guys"?

[Asker]

I could have worded it differently- but that was not my intention. The burden is not on you to prove your non-racism by answering in a certain way, I was just asking an honest question because Reddit is filled with white guys who have voiced a problem with their girlfriends black "exes." To be fair, I've also seen black guys have an issue with black women (especially pretty black women) dating white guys, but this seems to be a problem with them CURRENTLY dating them- not a problem with them having dated them in the past. Both cases involve "racism," or more fairly a prejudice against a group, and thereby a disgust in someone who has interacted with them to this degree.

[MountAverage]

Well okay, but if you were just being very hyperbolic with your phrasing, then I don't know exactly what types of answers you were looking for. Racist morons will be racist morons. What else is there to say, you know?

[Asker]

The only answers I hoped to garner, without judgement, is if someone would genuinely have a problem with it (for whatever reason), or not. Simultaneously, for the girls, if they had noticed consequences for doing so. I believe we all have prejudices, many of which aren't objectively ethical- we want to think we're fair to everyone; so, it's at least necessary to be honest about them, and show grace to others who have them (as we all have some, be they racially, politically, geographically, etc.)

[MountAverage]

People who genuinely have a problem with that, are outright racists. There's just no way around that. But racists are usually not honest about their racist beliefs.

[Asker]

That doesn't mean anything, nor is it relevant to the question. We all have racial prejudices, including those who are blind. For example, in a study of support of interracial marriage most respondents said they supported it; however, this changed when it came to one of their family members doing so. I'm kinda tired of these pseudo-saints who sit on a soap box of self-righteous indignation.

[MountAverage]

I'm not talking about racial prejudices that we all have. I'm talking about outright racism. Nobody who has merely some standard implicit racial prejudices has an an actual problem with their partner having had a black partner before. That's just on a whole different level. To actually have an problem with something like that, someone doesn't just have some implicit racial prejudices, no, they would have to be an outright racists.

There's nothing "self-righteous" about it, it's just how it is. But I don't know, maybe you're one of these clowns who think unless you wear white sheets and burn crosses you're not a racist. And considering the language you use when talking about this ("pseudo-saints") I have a feeling you're just looking for confirmation of your own "racial prejudices" (racism).

So yeah, maybe, I don't know, fuck off?

[HiddenHand]

Yeah... a lot of it is just racism gven a boost by insecurity

[blackoutlawstudbrady]

There's a saying that once you go black, you never go back, so likely no because of societal racism.

[Asker]

I meant from your own personal preference. I'm assuming by your name that you're black?

[4ngelic]

yea unless they racist

[Asker]

Most people have some prejudice- I was asking (from the girls) if they have faced consequences for having dated a black guy (from their dating prospects of non-black guys).

[CALIGVLA]

Then I'm proudly racist because I don't see a white woman with a black guy fetish as nothing more than fuck meat. And I don't get into committed relationships with sl*ts.

[Anonymous]

Snowbunnies aren't my type.

[Anonymous]

Why would it matter at all?

[Asker]

Why isn't the question- the question for girls was if you had dated/ messed around with a black guy has it affected you after in trying to date white guys.
Unless you've lived under a rock it's a fairly common sentiment for white guys to have a problem with their girlfriend/ potential girlfriend sleeping with black guys before.

[Rustyshackelford69]

No, and if they have they should warn them

[Anonymous]

Noo thats disgusting

[Anonymous]

Not seriously, that's gross.

[Twalli]

I wouldn't care.