Is it wrong for me to be attracted to all races?

[Anonymous]

My online friend told me I would have better luck with girls if I only pursue white girls and focus all my efforts on them because it’s easier to date within your race. I am a white boy myself but I am not exclusively attracted to white girls due to growing up in a diverse area in California. I’m just not. There are tons of pretty white girls but I find my attraction based on individuals and don’t have a type. Is my friend right? Should I feel weird about pursuing both white girls and other races since I am white?

[Summeroflove]

You should like who you like. Ask the girls out that you want and don’t let someone tell you what to do.


It’s totally fine and normal to have preferences and standards. If you’re not attracted to someone it doesn’t mean you dislike her as a person. You’re just not into her.


I mean there is a lot of women out there or every race so even if one rejects you there is a lot more. You should pursue who makes YOU happy. Not what someone else thinks you should be doing.


Don’t settle for someone you’re not into

[FilmGuy93]

My brother says something similar to your friend. I just ignore him. If you like what you like; just make sure that you are discerning in your romantic choices.

[Aletheia223]

There's love in all races. Don't listen to him, follow your heart

[mandyfire98]

It's not wrong at all. There are attractive people in all races.

[tenor55]

Not wrong at all.

[Anonymous]

Nope, I’m white and my girlfriend is latina.