Guys, How do you feel when a girl loves you too much and is clingy with you? Would you love it? or Does it annoys you? If it annoys you, Why?

[Anonymous]

[bamesjond0069]

Love it. There is a thing such as too much but I'd be more worried if she wasn't clingy at all.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I dunno. I'd probably like it. Never been in a relationship.

[Guy13]

Too clingy is too much and it smothers the relationship itself.

[serious]

Just like how there is good fear and bad fear, in the same way being clingy can be in a good way and in bad ways also.

I have always been single but based on the concept above hypothetically if I had a woman who loves me too much and is clingy then I would love that and would never mind. Although she must be clingy in good ways only.

[Asker]

What do you understand by bad ways?

[serious]

I will reply soon

[serious]

I just remember I did not reply to your question yet. I will reply right now.

[serious]

Yes so by being clingy in bad ways I mean to say, if the woman I am with stops me from doing things I love to do, like playing badminton, watching movies on TV, playing games on iPhone and PC or just going for a walk in the part, I love to cycle in the gym, do cardio exercises. I love to do these things by myself (alone) but if she is clingy in a way that she always wants me to be close to her (physically) and not even leave the house and if I have to leave home then she will ask for full details. In this case she is being clingy in a very bad way.

This type of being clingy is very unhealthy. In this case all she would want is for me to be always be in front of her eyes and be close to her physically so that she can always keep looking at me. In this case, I cannot even have some time for myself and to me this is what I say is being clingy in bad ways.

[serious]

Hence if a woman displays this kind of clinginess then it will not take a second for me to throw her out of my life. There will be no forgiveness either. No second chances.

[serious]

This being said, if a woman is clingy in good ways then I will totally love that. It has to be in good ways only. Strictly.

[serious]

I apologize for the late reply.

[serious]

I hope both your hypothetical question and even the last question you asked was answered satisfactorily.

[Butterflyflyhigh]

If someone have the mutual feeling, clingy won't be a problem, in reality people do have own needs and time and naturally it ll be just the same, if then the clingy thingy became a problem, again, if people have mutual feeling that's always something that can be discussed, if there's no mutual feeling obviously clingy would be a problem as simple as that #ithink

[anon1903]

It depends. If she's the kind to always lay a hand on him and sit close then that's probably cute, he'd feel cherished. But if she's the kind that disturbes him at work or while he's chilling and gaming — he's gonna tell her off. It's annoying.

[Sugar100]

Why people say girls are clingy when people get married. Isn’t being Married clingy? You see partner daily 24/7? How they aren’t annoyed seeing partner daily living in same house? That’s clingy

[Vegasrunner]

@Sugar100 It's when they need to know what you're doing when you're not with them that they become clingy.

[Sugar100]

@Vegasrunner it’s same you live together married and need know where guy is.

[Sugar100]

You live together and need be with guy 24:7 never alone

[Vegasrunner]

@Sugar100 Yes that is the clingy part. An adult male supporting his family is free to go and be where he wants. What the women should be focusing on is her responsibilities. Can you imagine how pathetic it would he for a grown man having to account for his whereabouts lol?

[Vegasrunner]

@Sugar100 That's more about female insecurity.

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner insecurity comes only when she have a love on him. If she isn't insecure at all, then she doesn't love him. Many guys want a girl who isn't insecure, who won't love them

[Vegasrunner]

@asker If they're married its more than reasonable to believe she loves him. I agree though, it's much better to have a woman who likes you vs who loves you. A woman who likes you will go to the store for you in the middle of the night a woman who loves you will complain because you asked her to go.

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner sadly guys lose a girl that loves them by choosing this kind of shit. Love have care even in insecurity

[Vegasrunner]

@asker The love aspect is only sad to females as they are the ones who make decisions based on emotion. For men it's important to attract women who like you because they will actually do more for you. When women are in love they tend to be more insecure because of how afraid they are of getting their hearts broken.

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner that's your choice. But the girl who likes you and not loves you might leave you heartbroken any day. Only the girl who loves you truly will stay with you forever

[Vegasrunner]

@asker Lol, that's one of the funniest things I've ever heard. I'm assuming it was a typo. Loving someone certainly doesn't guarantee they will stay w/ you forever, and that's not even a goal of most men. Men look for quantity and variety and simply having multiple women would decrease any chance of having you heartbroken. You also highlight something I teach guys which is women tend to believe that their relationship needs ate the same as men. Getting your heartbroken is something you specifically are insecure about. I don't think about that at all, partly because I would never give my heart to any non family member to begin with.

[libsaretards]

There is a difference between wanting to spend time with me vs. being smothering and NEVER letting me have my own time. Everyone needs individual time to be themselves. Partners do not need to be together 24/7.

[Soremain]

I'm naturally very introverted and highly value my personal space and time. That'd make me very uncomfortable.

[xJeremyx]

I'm ok with clingy. But I still need some personal space. I cannot survice with a velcro girl

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't mind her being real clingy with me.

[Anonymous]

I'd like it so long as she was mentally stable.

[slatyb]

That's not "loving too much". That's "obsessively needy"

[ItalianKing02]

I don't know