What do women look for when they want a long-term relationship? How do you know when a relationship is going to last?

[poneglyphs]

Just wondering because I had few dates before but none ever clicked. Whats makes you say, oh I like him?

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There's a lot of good answers here 😊😊😊

[burlen]

Keep in mind that women are individuals with their own unique preferences, values, and priorities. The best way to find out what a woman is looking for in a long-term relationship is to ask her directly.

However, there are some traits and qualities that many women might look for when seeking a long-term relationship:

Compatibility: Women often look for partners who share their values, interests, and beliefs. They want to be with someone who they can relate to and enjoy spending time with.

Emotional connection: Women often value emotional intimacy and connection in a relationship. They want a partner who is supportive, understanding, and communicative.

Trust and loyalty: Women often prioritize trust and loyalty in a partner. They want to feel safe and secure in a relationship and know that their partner is committed to them.

Communication: Women often value open and honest communication in a relationship. They want a partner who is willing to listen and communicate their own thoughts and feelings.

Shared goals and aspirations: Women often look for partners who share their long-term goals and aspirations, whether that's starting a family, pursuing a particular career, or traveling the world.

The following indicators can determine the duration and survival of a relationship.

Communication: Strong communication skills are essential for a healthy and lasting relationship. Couples who can communicate openly, honestly, and respectfully tend to have stronger and more successful relationships.

Shared values and goals: Couples who share similar values, goals, and priorities tend to have more successful relationships. This doesn't mean they have to agree on everything, but having a shared vision for the future can help build a strong foundation for a long-lasting relationship.

Mutual respect and support: Partners who show respect and support for each other tend to have more satisfying relationships. They encourage each other to grow and pursue their goals, and they celebrate each other's successes.

Compromise: In any relationship, there will be times when partners disagree or have different needs. Successful couples are able to compromise and find solutions that work for both partners.

Quality time together: Spending quality time together is essential for a healthy and lasting relationship. Couples who prioritize spending time together and engaging in activities they both enjoy tend to have stronger relationships.

Trust: Trust is an essential component of any relationship. Partners who trust each other tend to have stronger and more satisfying relationships.

[MaazHussain]

Every woman is different and will have her own set of criteria and values when it comes to what she looks for in a long-term relationship. However, some common factors that women might consider important include:

• Emotional connection: feeling a deep emotional bond with their partner, including shared values, interests, and goals.
• Trust: feeling secure and trusting their partner to be faithful, honest, and reliable.
  Communication: being able to communicate openly and honestly with their partner, and feeling heard and understood.
• Respect: feeling respected and valued by their partner, and being treated with kindness and consideration.
• Shared experiences: enjoying spending time together, having fun, and creating meaningful experiences.

As for how to know when a relationship is going to last, it can be difficult to predict the future. However, some signs that a relationship may have the potential for longevity include:

• Mutual respect and admiration.
• Good communication and conflict resolution skills.
• Shared values, interests, and goals.
• Both partners are willing to work through challenges and difficult times.
• A sense of commitment and dedication to the relationship from both partners.

Ultimately, it's important to remember that every relationship is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. Trusting your instincts and being open and honest with your partner about your needs and expectations can help you create a strong foundation for a long-term, healthy relationship.

[earthcitizen7]

You can NEVER tell if a LTR will last. Why not? Because both of you are a certain way now. As you grow, and mature, you WILL both CHANGE, and you may change a LOT! To make ANY LTR work, you both have to be able to try and adjust to the other person, and to the relationship. There are an infinite number of factors that can influence you, and your LTR, many of which are TOTALLY out of your control.

First, make sure your partner is NICE. Do they treat you well? Do they treat other people well? If not, end it now, and get out. If they are nice, then talk to them, and see how you communicate. Does your partner realize that you, and them, will both change, and it will change your LTR? Are they will to be flexible and adjust to all the changes? Are YOU willing to be flexible with your partner?

Good Luck!

God created Our Universe with Love and Free Will. Use your Free Will to Love!

[RobT312]

I think what people look for is a very personal thing and very different for everyone …stability, love, good sex, being happy with who they are with, etc. are some of the common ones you hear.
you never know if something will last, you just have to take a risk and hope it does

[poneglyphs]

True you do.

[NathanDavis]

you can never really know for sure...

what you can do though, is to actively work on your relationship day by day... and then one day, you've been together for a decade or two...

[Anonymous]

If the guy's respectful, sweet, responsible, if he trusts in me, cares for me, we share ideas and points of view, we connect well, if he says things straightforward, has life plans and works towards them, and we can build life plans together. If our feelings are mutual, we totally care about each other and no one tries harder than the other for the relationship to work, that's it.

[exitseven]

I think that they are looking for somebody to replace their father.

[BarryLiverstone]

They want someone who loves themself and is successful and gets shit done. You are not having long term relationships because you don’t love yourself.

[Anonymous]

Relationships with women only last as long as women find you beneficial to them.

[poneglyphs]

What kind of criticism is that?

[Opinion Owner]

It’s just brutal truth.
Women only “love” while you benefit them, they are always looking for the next best thing.

[Anonymous]

U don’t know it’s going to last. You just keep working at it together

[Babygirl_S]

I just want a loyal man.

[poneglyphs]

That shouldn't be too hard right?

[Babygirl_S]

I guess.

[poneglyphs]

I meant it because I have no idea?

[Babygirl_S]

Me neither