LADIES, Ladies always say am so hard to READ, let me get ladies perspective about this also , my QUESTION is what exactly do LADIES WANT?

[Luisaltenhofen]

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Ladies always think i don't love/care about them because am not obsessed about them, or i don't simp to them, they keep telling me i hurt them a lot.

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which i don't, I'm more of idgaf personality kind of man, i genuinely care about them and their parents, but i can't be obsessed about a lady/ simp for any.

[SueShe]

If you lack facial expression when talking to people, then yes, it will be difficult to be able to "read" you or to have an opinion on your behavior. Some people just are expressionless and have no or little body language and it makes it difficult to analyze that person.

I am an example of a person that does not express feelings or have a very neutral body language and at times, it infuriates people because they don't know where to place me or to know how I react to them.

Whatever this "idgaf" personality means, I presume that people have a hard time judging you. However, if you do care about certain people, then you have to let them know that you do otherwise you will progressively be left out and you may end up being alone in your corner because people are incapable to communicate with you through body language or expressions of emotions.

You don't have to "simp" but simply to let them know that the message they send across has arrived.

[PrettyPriya]

I would say that is true you are hard to read because I don’t really know what you are asking. How are any of us going to know why you are hard to read. We don’t know you. If you are being told this, you probably need to look at your actions and words around girls and analyze why they would think you are difficult to read.

The other question is also very vague and hard to read. What do we want in life? Partner? Goals? To eat? For Christmas? I could just start naming any of that stuff since I don’t really know what you are getting at.

You may want to use the update box and update the question with some more information. Otherwise, you are likely to get more confused answers like mine. If you do update, I will revise my opinion accordingly to what I, as a woman, want in reference to what you are really wanting to know. I look forward to the update.

[Luisaltenhofen]

@PrettyPriya will update the question shortly, i didn't know i was not detailed, i didn't wanna just let everything out you get what i mean, would definitely add more details.
Thank You for your time.

[PrettyPriya]

You’re welcome! I will update my answer when you do. Thanks! 🙂

[Luisaltenhofen]

That's what they all want from me and that keeps getting in the way of my relationship so i keep ending it, i have a friend of mind that's the complete opposite of me in personality his always obsessed about all the ladies his been with yet all the ladies his been with keeps leaving him and get tired of him, so i ask what do ladies actually want? Though i don't mind looking like an asshole to them.
I'm German my English is not to good 😅

[Luisaltenhofen]

Please start from up to read, i couldn't UPADATE all that's why i wrote some in the comment section" hope you get it pretty messed up 😅

[PrettyPriya]

I want a guy with a good personality, caring, intelligent, hard working, etc etc. Yes, I have to be physically attracted to them as well but mostly it is about personality.

You do not have to “simp” for them and fall all over them. I prefer a guy that has confidence. That said, I want him to care for me. Hope this helps.

[Luisaltenhofen]

@PrettyPriya i know all of that already but thanks, if you don't mind where you from?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Thanks for the updates, I kind of needed those. If someone wants you to obsess over them, run. If someone wants you to simp over them, run faster. Those are not the kind of people you want to be with.

What do we want? We all want different things. You just happen to be walking into women who want their partner to simp or obsess.

[Luisaltenhofen]

Woaah this deep! Thanks good advice!

[Ms_Facesitter]

You're welcome.

[Luisaltenhofen]

@Ms_Facesitter so you in any serious thing right now?😅

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yep and I don't want him to obsess over me. I know right, pretty crazy stuff.

[Luisaltenhofen]

@ms_facesitterI can see what you did there🤣

[Anonymous]

There is no right or wrong answer, everyone is different.