Which date should you kiss on?

[Anonymous]

The first, second or third? Who makes the move, the man or the woman? What are signs that someone wants to kiss you if they don’t ask you first and is it best to ask first before kissing someone on a date? When I was young, some guys just moved in for it. I liked that. I think now you can be charged for sexual assault. But I think there’s a difference between the character James Bond’s behaviour and a guy or girl who genuinely cares for you going for it? I’ve got Asperger’s and I’m out of practice and not politically correct, so I’m not sure.

[Guy13]

Most guys check out the emotion and vibe by kissing during first date. If that’s vibing for both then touching and kissing intensifies from there forward

[Asker]

What happens, do they usually ask for permission, start leaning in near you or look at your mouth? I’ve seen this in movies, but movies are grown up’s fairytales. It’s been a while for me.

[AviatorTom]

A kiss at the end of the first date, if it went well, would be very nice. In subsequent dates, the kissing becomes more frequent, and more passionate.

[Asker]

Thanks, that’s very helpful. How long should you make a guy wait for sex? If you want him to love and respect you but you don’t want to wait for marriage?

[AviatorTom]

You should have sex when you are ready, there is no fixed time or date limit. When it feels right, do it.

[Asker]

I asked a guy who’s been chasing me and shocked him into silence. But I’ve always either done it too soon or left it too late.

[Mayo503]

All depends on how the night went and how you feel I say….
He should make the first move and it shouldn’t matter what date night it is….
All you’re doing is putting yourself in a category ….
It’s got to feel right that’s all …
But I am a man lol
Hope that helps

[Asker]

Right. Is a woman allowed to ask a man for a kiss, or do you have to always let men chase you?

[Mayo503]

No women can ask all day long nothing wrong in that too…
But from me it should be a man’s move …
Lol….
But if a lady wants a kiss and she makes the first move so be it good on you I say

[boggboss]

There is no regiment to doing so all deoends on the people dating and how things are going

[Asker]

I’ve been molested, sexually harassed and even forced into sex and falsely accused of sexual harassment in the past, so I’m afraid to flirt or make a flat out move if I like someone.

[boggboss]

Then u would need to find a partner thats willing to do all if that or look into therapy to get over your oast trauma

[riverrat3]

When it feels right do it, which date does not matter