Are you the only single one in your family?

[Anonymous]

I am

[bolverk]

Yes I'm the only single on in my family, elder brother to four sisters, had my fill of child rearing with my for sisters, nieces & nephews.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

No. My youngest sister is, too. My middle sister has a family, my mom has a boyfriend and dad has a girlfriend.

[EmmaMary]

Thankfully all three of us girls are now extremely happily married with families of our own.

[Jennz6]

@EmmaMary Aww 🥰 that’s sweet

[EmmaMary]

@Jennz6

Thank you so very much indeed. ❤

[Jdjfjcjj]

Uh oh, she added the happy prefix 🤫🍉

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[JustinTheGreat]

No. I’m the only married one about of my siblings which is funny cause I’m the youngest lol.
2 of my sisters have been with the same boyfriends since they were teens but they’re just not interested in marriage.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I really think if you dyed your hair black, you'd gain instaly attract at least another 5% min of guys.

[Asker]

I am pale as fuck. I do NOT want to look like the girl from The Ring. Also, do that just for guys? Fuck. That.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Actually I should probably be more specific. Brunette. Not some other unnatural color like jet black.

[Asker]

I tried brunette before. Wasn’t my thing. And again, I absolutely refuse to do anything just for men. It is exhausting and a pain in the ass.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I get where you coming from but women all competing with each other to get the best option possible and I'm just being honest here but women with unnatural colored hair hair are almost universally seen as a no-go for any kind of relationship material.

And let's be honest here makeup is worn for a reason.. everyone wants to r seen as attractive as possible. Saying you refuse to play the game, is a defense mechanism that allows you to convince yourself whatever you want.

Stop seeing yourself In a negative light and believing there's no hope regardless of any effort. Gain a little positive self image in yourself and that too will increase your attraction level. Those two things alone and you'll find you competing with women again

[Asker]

But, that’s so much work and a waste of energy. I don’t wanna 😫 I’m too lazy.

[Asker]

Can I just die single instead?

[Jdjfjcjj]

You can do whatever you want. If you happy doing that, more power to ya. If not, then start with this,
Whenever you have a critical thought about yourself, as soon as you notice this happenedint, force yourself to list off a positive trait. Do this every time so your brain trains it self to see yourself more and more in positive light.

Alright now, gave you all my secrets, I generally take zero interest in offering help to strangers, but today was the exception I guess.

Now make it happen girl! 🍉

[Asker]

Why try to help me when I didn’t ask for help? Or wanted it?

[Jdjfjcjj]

If I tell you the truth, it would be counter productive to all these message I've just sent you.

I'm done replying now. GL

[Asker]

You find me ugly, don’t you? You’re not the first one.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I felt sorry for you. I imagine that's not any better.

[Asker]

Nope

[Asker]

And what are you feeling sorry for me for anyway?

[Jdjfjcjj]

Just look at the title if your post.

[Asker]

And? What do you care?

[Asker]

And to clarify, I like blondes and redheads. So I need someone who’s into the same thing.

[KostasKouvalis]

I don't think so. I'm pretty sure a lot of my cousins from my dad's side are still single and even older then me

[Heolurt]

Possible, I'm not too sure as I don't actually have any family in my life, but as the only person in my life, I am single.

[Wise4myage]

No, me and my sister are both single at the moment.

[TomMarks]

Yes, hope to work on that soon.

[Jennz6]

I had a sister but she died

[EmmaMary]

Oh dear heaven's, that's absolutely the most terribly upsetting thing I've read in a very long time.

However long ago it might have been, I offer you my most utmost sincerest condolences.

[Jennz6]

@EmmaMary thank you Emma 💯😇

[TrillXHippy]

I don’t know I have a big family

[Anonymous]

Yes because I’m a loser who no woman is into

[hbg84]

Yes i am

[Adogdog]

Yes I am LOL

[legalboxers]

yes sadly

[shortster]

Pretty much