My girlfriends into drag queen/shows and I'm not, should I find someone else who's views align better with mine?

[Anonymous]

[WonderBell99]

It is not necessary that you have to like the same things that your partner does. You don’t always have to be two peas in a pod to be in a healthy relationship. To play the devil’s advocate, I’d argue that it is essential that you and your partner enjoy things that does not involve each other’s likes. I’m not into drag shows either, but I could date someone who is into it as long as we are compatible in other aspects of our relationship.

You and your partner are two different people with different opinions, likes and dislikes. If you can tolerate your dislike towards your partner’s likes, I would call it a healthy relationship with good boundaries. On the other hand, if you are dead set on having a partner who does not enjoy drag, she is probably not the right fit for you and you might need to end the relationship.

Are her views not compatible with yours at all? Or is it just this one thing?

[Randooommm55]

Not gonna lie this is the dumbest thing ever people are gonna like different things. Do you mean she’s ok w homosexuals & ur not? Because that’s totally different

[NamerOfStars]

Well, do you see it as a problem, or just a "she does her thing and I do mine"-type thing? It is important to have things in a relationship that don't involve your partner.

[exitseven]

I think in this case it would be a good idea. She will not get any better.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[hbg84]

Yes you should. You shouldn't compromise your views for anyone.

[Akam93]

Yes you should.

[In_Trance]

Maybe