When dancing with a woman, how do I find a woman that will wear a nice blouse with skirt/dress, sheer pantyhose, and pumps (high heels are a plus)?

[Anonymous]

Another thing I want to add is that she’d long straight hair at least to the shoulders. Anyway, I want a female companion that will look very feminine, elegant, and professional when I’m dancing with her and showing physical affection to her. When she’s dressed very well and has is well groomed, I’ll have more desire to maintain eye contact with her and stay focused on her. When I’m slow dancing with her, it’s like I’m hugging her and I have more desire to hug a woman when she’s wearing something nice. When she’s pretty and has beautiful hair and a pretty face, I have more desire to kiss her and touch her hair. When she’s wearing pantyhose, I have more desire to touch her legs by caressing and stroking them.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes it’s better not to be so specific, it really narrows down the women even eligible. You’re an older man so maybe you have a certain style in mind but What you’re talking about sounds dated. I don't know who’d wear that for a night out of dancing in this day and age.

[Asker]

I don’t care if it’s considered old fashioned by society. As I don’t care if society considers pantyhose old fashioned. Women look great in pantyhose and a woman that wears them is my kind of woman.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s all fantastic, you don’t have to care what society thinks and I’m not even suggesting you should. I’m just telling you that your chances of finding a woman matching all your “wants” is very low. Especially with that style of clothing. Maybe a much older lady.

[Asker]

I don’t want a woman that’s too much older than me.

With pantyhose, for me, a woman not wearing pantyhose (going bare legged) with a dress or skirt is like a man not wearing socks with a suit. I’m being honest and I’m not trying to be offensive. The thing is I want a woman that dresses up to the fullest.

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing is wrong with pantyhose, there’s plenty of women who wear them for certain occasions, to mask insecurities or whatever. But when’s the last time you’ve gone to a non-formal dance event? Like when clubs host themed nights and things like that? If so, how often do you see a woman dressed how you described and not in like a nice top and jeans with heels or something? You are more likely to see a more modern style than the dress, pantyhose and pumps combo.

[Asker]

I don’t care if some people wonder if I’m from the 20th century. I don’t follow trends. If a woman doesn’t like what I look for in her, she just doesn’t date me. I’m not desperate in finding a girlfriend/female companion. I wouldn’t go to a non-formal dance event anyway to answer your question. I don’t care what’s more modern to society. I don’t let society dictate what kind of woman I should go for.

[Opinion Owner]

Sir, why do you keep telling me you don’t care what this person or that person thinks? I never said for you to care about trends or beauty standards. I am only saying it will be hard to find a woman who dresses in the style you’re attracted to. Why do you keep taking that and turning it into “well I don’t care if people wonder —“ or “I don’t let society dictate —“… like where is this coming from? Lol I don’t control what everyone wears, it’s just what you and I see around us. I know you see it too because you didn’t even answer my question, just went on a rant about something else.

[Opinion Owner]

If you don’t care about finding a companion then why are you so pointedly trying to find one? You would just go about your life and if you run into a woman one night with a 50s style dress, sheer pantyhose and pumps then that’s wonderful.

[Asker]

I wasn’t saying you were telling me not to care about trends or beauty standards. I’m just saying I want a woman that meets what I’m looking for; that’s all.

[Opinion Owner]

I do wish you luck finding that woman, I’m just saying it’s gonna be hard. But I’m sure she’s out there.

[Asker]

I’m not going to give up.

[Anonymous]

In an odd twist of fate today a man was filmed slow dancing with a unicorn. A unicorn which by rights should not exist yet seemed quite enamored with the man. The man is quoted as saying he never thought this could happen outside novels and couldn't be happier...

[Fireguy17]

For starters you need to go to/find a place where that is what most women are wearing.
With the more casual drees today that seems to be harder to find.

[Anonymous]

There's old lady clubs out there. Pantyhose.. tf