Would you settle for a guy who was very unattractive if you really connected with him?

[Anonymous]

[kylee2437]

So I’m currently going through this and honestly , I’m very close to rejecting him. Although I connect with him personality wise, his current life is very different from mine. He doesn’t work out, he eats unhealthily, he goes out every weekend and he spends most of his time with his friends. Although I do love his personality , his lifestyle is just not very fitting to mine and it concerns me to start a future with him.

[Anonymous]

The concept of attractiveness is subjective and varies from person to person. While physical appearance can initially influence attraction, it's important to remember that true connections and fulfilling relationships are built on various factors such as shared values, emotional compatibility, communication, and mutual understanding. Many people prioritize these deeper connections over physical appearance when forming meaningful relationships.

[inhua]

not attracted to guys

either way, human nature is prone to the 3 second fuck rule where we already know who we want to have sex with or are receptive to having sex with based on looks alone without ever needing to know the person's character

the Halo Effect/Devil Effect is largely responsible for a lot of good personalities being hidden and a lot of bad personalities sneaking through

[Nikki1989]

I married a very average looking guy, but his personality, charm, and wit more than make up for it. Very unattractive is on a whole other level, though.

[MementoMori777]

just curious so ima spectate

[asphaltrhymes]

Ditto 🙏😂

[RavVid]

In the reverse of a girl that is unattractive but I connect with her, the question then becomes do I get hard over her?

If NO then no

If YES then yes

[Anonymous]

Define unattractive.


Because what you may consider unattractive might not be unattractive to me.

[Anonymous]

Depends what you define as unattractive. I've found many women that most people thought were unattractive attractive.

[Jmmmfi4]

I should be so lucky

[Anonymous]

No way