Is chubby chasing a coping mechanism?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

“chubby chasing?” “coping mechanism?” Lmao
Being fat or skinny your still a human being who has a heart for love. They might not be your choice or preference but don’t make seem like their not worth any of it because of a persons weight or how a person look. Honestly, if you don’t like how their being love from a real man or women just look the other way if you don’t like it lol

Wise_gal_x · Accepted Answer

Are you currently going through some stress/depression? What do you mean by coping mechanism? Like, always finding yourself attracted to bigger girls/women when you're stressed? Or is this the first time you're feeling this way? How do you feel towards this person? How are you mentally at this stage? Were you chasing chubbies when you were also happy?

236color · Accepted Answer

I don't know. I don't think so. As we know there are people who are into whatever you can imagine. Women with some extra weight aren't hard to imagine. Also "chubby, fat" or whatever term you like is a subjective value. My college roommate insists I like fat women. I think he likes girls that look like 14 year old boys with plums in their shirt pockets.

Vegasrunner · Accepted Answer

I don't think it's a coping mechanism it's just that some guys take what they get. in my opinion chubby women make great slump busters and can be used by guys to gain experience in the bedroom as well as to study female nature. Even the most hideous fat girl believes she's a 10.

ZackBan · Answer

Ngl some chubby girls are the cutest girls I've ever seen but I personally avoid that.

As someone who's struggled with weight his whole life I can't deal with that kind of influence.

It's like a recovering adict deciding to date an active drug user

Anonymous · Answer

Coping for…? Insecurity? Maybe. But not for everyone.
My friend observed once that she felt like I was “dating down” (physically) because I thought it meant he was less likely to cheat. I was insecure with myself so there may have been some truth to that but I had the perspective that I was seeking personality traits at the forefront.

Chthou95 · Answer

To an extent. There are men out there who are just into those kind of women (which ill never understand why) but they are. Bet lets be real, a lot of other men with no options or dating success will chase after bigger women because they see it as an easier time

AaronKrieger · Answer

No, lol. I am into chubby girls, yet I've dated skinny women before. Hell, I'm talking to one right now. Everyone has different standards, since people prefer different shit.

BCA6010 · Answer

I know it's a thing and I know some men who  seem  to always be dating chubky women but I dont get it. Same with foot fetishes.

ShesRad80 · Answer

no its fetish or specific like/ a coping mechanism is a positive or negative thing you do that calms extreme stress or anxiety

genericname85 · Answer

can be. poorer men are more likely for chubby girls, cause subconsciously they are coping for failing to provide enough food for them. it's a very primal instinct that is just not conscious.

pethouse · Answer

Personally I feel like like for chubby girls they A: have some of the best personality’s you’ll meet in a girl. Or B have the meanest. Majority of the time it’s A!

gothbxtch · Answer

nope and it’s an offensive term. fat people are hot, bottom line

Anonymous · Answer

Nah, it’s about expanding horizons, like literally, expanding horizontally. Some of us guys don’t mind bigger girls but I wouldn’t be opposed to finding someone in shape or skinny - the extra weight just doesn’t bother me.

jwmiller95 · Answer

Sexual selection goes against physical capability? I think not. Women want someone tough and masculine not fat and lazy

Exterminatore · Answer

I think it’s a settling mechanism because that’s the best those guys can do.

shades777 · Answer

yea, but some chubbies be putting out so do you my boy!

elontesler3 · Answer

i only like fat ones. trust me, i invented the Tesler Sibertruck, SpaceseX, and i own Twatter.

Yannishka · Answer

No it's just a taste

Anemone978 · Answer

No, people just like what they like.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

No, chubby girls need love to

WhitneySnow · Answer

I don’t understand

Reem12345reem · Answer

no it's a preference

BlckGrl · Answer

No, there are men that geuinely love big women.

jeffend888 · Answer

It could be, but depends on the guy.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Path of least resistance.

Fuentes · Answer

Lol I don't think so

Anonymous · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

No...

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