Also would you cut things off or stop talking with someone for not being into the same music as you, or if they wouldn’t go skydiving with you? The last 2 girls I was talking to said that was a dealbreaker for them, but they liked me as a person and they found me very attractive… but they still decided to cut things off regardless… so how important is common interests, and a person aesthetic to a healthy happy relationship? I obviously think common interests are important, but the reason people have cut things off with me feels very strange and out of nowhere…
What is most important in a long term relationship?
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Lmao
Those are excuses they can't say your so boring to your face!
Most important is chemistry and being friends together... Being bored in 6 months is just cause your boring!
I feel like that is a leap in logic on your part, you have no idea if I’m burning or the full situation surrounding their decision, I was only talking with these girls for about a week each, talking on the phone, video chats, texting, making plans to meet up, them constantly telling me I’m handsome and wanting selfies of me, and then they ask a question, I answer it incorrectly and they’re like… oh no… that’s a deal breaker for me… I think it’s a difference in priorities in what’s important in a relationship then me just being a boring person… but you are entitled to your opinion…
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Mind following me back?
Trust, honesty and communication.
You would think so… but apparently you have to fit into a very rigid set of check points to be eligible to be a partner for some people…