Should I stay single for the rest of my life?

[Anonymous]

Since I’m strictly wanting a woman that keeps her hair long down to her shoulders, no tattoos or piercings, stays thin, often wears pantyhose and wears them every time she wears a dress or skirt and when I caress her legs and feet. If she stopped meeting those requirements, I’d divorce her.

[_Maya_]

For sure dude. I wouldn't put up with that shit for one second. That is controlling af. The second you tell a women your conditions or it means divorce she is going to run for the hills as they say. What sort of delusional world are you living in where you find it acceptable to have this mindset that she is going to be in your perfect image... or else. I would say yeah stay single but honestly I doubt it is going to be up to you to decide that.

[BasedBaeBecca]

You should be with a woman because you love her, not because of these requirements.

Maybe try to lower your standards on small things (like the things you mentioned: hair, tattoos, etc) and try to focus on her behavior, personality, attitude, and how she makes you feel.

If she keeps her hair down to her shoulders will decide whether you stay married or not, I think you will have a disappointing life.

[Asker]

I’d rather stay single for life then.

[serious]

Okay so the way I understand is that your standards are high and they are strict that is not a problem at all. Yes it does and will make things tough for you but then that is the price to pay for having high standards.

I would say your thinking is good, your standards are good and it should be that way.

[Anonymous]

I think yes
That's too much standards and expectations in a relationship

[Asker]

As it is if I’m not physically attracted to a woman, I’m not interested in dating her. No exceptions. If she didn’t have long hair, dress the way I love seeing a woman dress, had tattoos or piercings, and not the right body type, etc. it’s a total dealbreaker for me. Either she meets those requirements for life or our relationship ends and if I was married to her, I’d hand her the divorce papers.

[Anonymous]

Yes, you should. In fact don't even date.