Have you ever been attracted to a younger guy?

[chris_987]

[Chevy1_kb]

men at over 18 av said they are hot looking but not think of them sexually unless its a guy with not to much of a age gab am 34 and people near my age 28 or over 30 any younger naw yeah I will think they are hot but not think of them in a sexual way

[chris_987]

If you think they are hot, doesn't that mean you think of them in a sexual way?

[Chevy1_kb]

no not necessarily because you can think someone is good looking but not have any feelings for them thinking someone is nice looking and thinking of them sexually is to diffrent things i mean i have thought older people than me are good looking but just not into them that way

[Chevy1_kb]

thinking someone is nice looking and l9ving or fancying someone are all diffrent things

[chris_987]

That must be a woman thing. I don't think a guy has ever said he thought a girl look good but didn't want to have sex with her

[Chevy1_kb]

yes well that's the way my head works anyway because i wouldn't for one minute think I wanted to have sex with someone with to much of a age gab because they are nice looking thats not my thing i will say they are good looking but am not gonna go oh a wanna have sex with him he's way to young am no that kind a women 18 no chance I will say there good looking but not think of them sexually thats sick not my way of thinking

[chris_987]

But what about those female teachers that are have sex with underage students, what's going through there minds

[Chevy1_kb]

am no sure what's going through there minds but what goes through my mind is i can think someone is nice looking but not think of him sexually because he's only 18 and there's to much of a age gap to think of him sexually

[Reem12345reem]

no I was once talking with a boy , i though he's my age , turns out he's 13

It immediately turned me off , i felt like i was his mother 💀

[chris_987]

A mother at 15 lol

[Reem12345reem]

🙂🙂

[chris_987]

So your looking for a father?

[Reem12345reem]

actually my dad died a year ago , but it's up for my mom to search for a new father for me

[chris_987]

Well I meant in dating, cuz you said dating a younger guy would make you feel like his mother. So if you dated an older guy, would he be your father?

[Reem12345reem]

I was joking about the death thing , but to answer your questin , usually guys don't see younger women like daughters , maybe they see older women as mothers , just like women see younger guys as sons
it's more natural for women to like older guys and guy to like younger women

[chris_987]

If it's more natural then why do most girls shame guys for going after younger girls?

[Reem12345reem]

i didn't mean underage girls lol
I meant it as in guys like women younger than them , so if a guy is 35 , he'll like women between 25 to 35 year old women , too less he might think they're not compatible or immature for him

[chris_987]

No if I go talk to a girl younger than me girls that are my age will say that I'm a creep boy talking to younger girls. They just like to shame people when they get rejected

[Reem12345reem]

i don't think it's creepy (personally) , 6 to 7 year difference is alright

[chris_987]

I know it's not. I was just making a point that girls are insecure when guys don't choose them so they say crazy stuff. Like making fun of people's biology

[Apple1996]

I'm basically only attracted to younger guys

[chris_987]

18 and older right?

[Apple1996]

Yess of course. Not into teens

[chris_987]

Cuz you're still young so younger than you is almost illegal

[Apple1996]

Oh stop I'm not that young. I just meant like 20+ occasionally 18-19 will be attractive too but not like I'd date them

[chris_987]

I've never seen a girl go after a younger guy. Seriously, it's usually just for a hookup

[Apple1996]

Like all the married couples in my family the guy is younger so maybe it's just normalized to me

[chris_987]

Yeah you sound like you live in a place where people marry young. And probably cheat a lot. I need to visit this place and see how the women treat me

[Apple1996]

My family is actually all over the place lol and yeah lots of young marriages. I don't know about cheating tho I don't get that deep into their lives

[chris_987]

A lot of army wives do cheat though. That's just a common thing. I thought you knew this

[Apple1996]

True but not all of my fam is military

[chris_987]

I know but I'm just talking about women that live with husbands who are in the military, I want to see how they would treat me, a six foot tall black man walking through there neighborhood.

[Apple1996]

Lots of black men around here so wouldn't think anything of that

[chris_987]

Well never mind. I'll find a different place where I'll be appreciated

[Apple1996]

You'd be appreciated in most places. Black men are hot 🔥

[chris_987]

I think that goes for everybody. Even you if you went to a place where there weren't a lot of girls that look like you, you'd be treated like a goddess

[Apple1996]

True I think that comes from opposites attracting. I get a lot more attention from men of other races that aren't white

[chris_987]

If you post that lingerie pic, I'm sure you'll get attention from all men

[Apple1996]

Yeah but my pic wasn't that sexy. They were just being nice

[chris_987]

Lol your funny, guys were ready to cheat on the wives for you.

[Apple1996]

Omg stop I don't think so 😂

[chris_987]

That picture of your body is forever burned into our minds. You'd make a lot of money if you started an onlyfans

[Apple1996]

Nah I'm fat ain't nobody would wanna watch me on OF

[chris_987]

Fat titties yes, but guy love that so your good

[Nxtawm]

Hmm for a bit of time, he was only a year younger

[chris_987]

And what did you guys do together?

[Nxtawm]

Nothing, it was just last year but we were long distance and only talked briefly before deciding we weren’t compatible

[Nxtawm]

It was just watching a few movies through call, texting, random short ft calls or I’d watch him stream his game

[chris_987]

What about celebrities? Have you ever like guys that were younger than you?

[Nxtawm]

No I prefer guys older than me, I don’t rlly fan girl over celebrities either

[chris_987]

So no just Bieber or Jonas Brothers. Your just into Taylor Swift

[Nxtawm]

Huh where did Taylor swift come from? I’m not a big fan of hers either, I don’t follow artists I just listen to songs I like

[chris_987]

What genre do you listen to the most?

[Anemone978]

Yeah.. but the younger ones almost always disappoint.. not mature enough LOL

[chris_987]

Mature in what sense?

[Adaeva]

A year younger but most of my boyfriends have been my age or one or two years older,

[Anonymous]

No, I prefer older men.

[chris_987]

What kind of older man do for you that a younger man can't?

[Opinion Owner]

It's not what they can do. I just find them more attractive.

[chris_987]

In terms of looks?

[Opinion Owner]

In some ways, yes. But looks are not the only thing that is important to me. When I say 'attractive', I'm talking about the whole package.

[chris_987]

Well the reason I ask this question was because when I was on dating apps it was a clear difference. When I typed in 18 to 24 for women as supposed to 28 to 36. The younger girls just looked better. The difference was night and day so I was wondering if it was the same reason why an older woman would go after a younger guy

[ShesRad80]

yes.

[chris_987]

So it is possible

[ShesRad80]

absolutely

[chris_987]

What made you attracted to him

[ShesRad80]

not age but who and how he is

[chris_987]

That's why I never tell girls my age because they always want a reason not to like you

[ShesRad80]

just be yourself the right female will see who you are

[chris_987]

I'm always myself. I just noticed that girls like guys to be perfect so the less they know the better

[ShesRad80]

there is no such thing as perfect

[chris_987]

There isn't but the way they talk you think they don't realize there isn't a such thing as perfect

[chris_987]

If you ask a girl what her standards for a guy is it's always somebody. She thinks is the perfect height above 6 ft. The perfect money above 100k and the perfect balance of toxic but also nice. And no girl has ever gotten that guy because he doesn't exist

[ShesRad80]

not all of us are like that my crush is 5'2 just a normal nerd. though i do agree i see a lot of that on here and here friends say girls actually have that in their dating profile and i think that sucks

[chris_987]

None of it is true. I just think girls have high standards but they don't really fall in love with their standards. It's just something they've been programmed to believe

[ShesRad80]

i can only speak for myself. who knows what anyone wants anymore

[chris_987]

So are you into girls too?

[ShesRad80]

no, never even been curious

[chris_987]

Oh cuz if you where I was gonna ask if they'd be younger too

[ShesRad80]

i dont go by age with guys i go by connection

[chris_987]

But hypothetically, if you're into girls you do the same. You'd go by connection?

[ShesRad80]

im not physically, sexually or emotionally attracted to female or the female body. i go by connection with men.

[chris_987]

Emotionally don't you have female friends?

[ShesRad80]

that meant in conjunction with everything that goes into attraction, interest in romantic way

[chris_987]

I think if your able to kiss a girl when your drunk then why would you turn down girls sexually

[ShesRad80]

for others yes as for me never have kissed a female, i have zero attraction, i like men

[ShesRad80]

im not other girls can't speak for them why they do what they do or who they do, drunk, not drunk etc, i can only speak for myself in the end

[chris_987]

So when your drunk you make out with men?

[ShesRad80]

i dont drink nor randomly make out, dp you ?

[ShesRad80]

do**

[chris_987]

I've never been drunk so are you saying you never been drunk?

[Anonymous]

Same age, but never younger.

[chris_987]

You got nice hips

[Opinion Owner]

I get that a lot.

[chris_987]

Really is that the way you were born or do you go to the gym

[Opinion Owner]

No, just grew up this way.

[chris_987]

You play sports or something?

[Opinion Owner]

LOL Nope.

[chris_987]

So your just lucky

[Opinion Owner]

I guess if that’s lucky 😝

[chris_987]

Yeah you got a strong metabolism i guess. I wonder what you look like in a bikini

[Opinion Owner]

I’m all butt 🤣

[chris_987]

What does all butt mean?

[Opinion Owner]

I look kinda weird in a bikini bc my butt is big and I'm not tall tbh

[chris_987]

Weird isn't the word I would use for a girl with a big butt? Maybe majestic or a goddess

[Opinion Owner]

Lol Thank you then? 😝

[chris_987]

Maybe it could be weird if there's cellulite but you don't look like you got that

[Opinion Owner]

Nope 😆

[chris_987]

So when you dance do you do twerking?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t dance a lot. Do you?

[chris_987]

I used too, but I don't have the type of body that girls like to watch

[LavLavLuv]

Nope