If you are a woman in her thirties would you say its better to date guy in their thirties and above?

[catarecute]

i am 29 and men in their early 20s keep making me feel like i am super old and about to enter the retirement home. i find them annoying. in less than 1000 days they will be my age. seriously they are so dumb.

[historectomy]

i think in some guys it is a natural reaction to want a woman older than them and as a young man we see anyone 5 years older than us as old i get called old by teenagers it happens for everyone, i would say as long as they are an adult the age won't matter find someone you love

[catarecute]

yea its ok to think someone is old its not ok to say it especially if you are dating them and if they are only 4 or 5 years older than you. i ghosted this guy he pissed me off. i dont normaly ghost people but this guy wasn't worth my time. i am not even thirty yet and i get called old by this guy.

[historectomy]

i do it with my friends it is more a teasing thing

[catarecute]

with your friends but not with a woman your dating. anyway i didn't like this guy he was weird. its ok to mention age difference for someone who is dating someone 20 years older like a 20 year old dating a 40. but five years difference is not a big deal.

[historectomy]

fair but say we dated, i would definitely make jokes about us both being old even tho we are not 30 yet so i kinda get it unless he was just being rude to be rude

[catarecute]

ok 30 isn't old anymore. the oldest person who has ever lived was 127 years old and the oldest woman to give birth naturally without ivf was 59. so if people look after themselves they can definitely stay young for a long time. making jokes about this is not polite especially around women.

[historectomy]

i just like joking about how old i am getting cause i still feel like a high schooler lol

[catarecute]

you are young. people are getting younger and younger now. even when you are 60 you will still be young.

[catarecute]

taylor swift is older than me i bet you noone would call her old or laugh at her age before dating her. why do they do it with me? cuz they dont respect me?

[historectomy]

yea i guess lol well anyway have fun dating dudes in their 30s hope you find the one

[historectomy]

and I don't know

[catarecute]

i would date this guy called colton because i love him he is way younger than me but i love him so i think its ok. apart from that i think i will date someone the same age from now unless its colton who i love.

[historectomy]

how old is he

[catarecute]

if ever colton found out i was good at sex and could pleasure him i am wondering if he would stay with me. i am not into lust because of my religion but if you love someone and it makes them happy maybe its ok.

[historectomy]

I don't know lol

[catarecute]

do sure if i am good at sex atm cuz i havn't had it for a while but i would practice and build a bondage room for him cuz i am sure he would be into bdsm.

[historectomy]

well good luck

[catarecute]

younger but he is an adult and i love him.

[historectomy]

have fun

[Anonymous]

Most of the time it's probably a good idea. However, there are always exceptions to the rule. There are many women (myself included) with fantastic relationships with guys who are quite a bit younger than them.

However, if he's making you feel like you're old enough to be in a retirement home than he definitely isn't that kind of guy.

[Anonymous]

stay away from men in their 20's. even late 20's. they are extremely immature and you won't get anywhere with them. date someone your age or only a few years older.

[catarecute]

thank you yea i started doing that tbh

[Adogdog]

I think it's a good idea to stay close your age in dating. I am 27 and hope to find someone 23-26 maybe.

[catarecute]

i am 29 and some 24 year old guy is treating me like an old lady and its annoying

[Adogdog]

That sucks. I am always told I look really young for my age.

[Staximus]

Why are you still chasing college boys, grow up already